Comments on: How to Get a Man to Notice You

on 8/26/2007 I agree with the comment about repeating a guy's name... it really works! But I like to remark that I am very attracted to intelligent and modest women. I disagree with the comment about how they should 'flaunt' their assets, but rather should flaunt a degree of intellect and moral introspection. That means the world to me. I fell for this gal who was working behind this small bar, and she was only wearing jeans and this old looking woolly jumper!

on 2/26/2007 once you have takled and he smiles at you and says hi to you in front of anyone..then tell him your feelings you will be glad you let it out..he will be so happy some one is interested in him..when he talks pay attention look into his eyes..if you know something about that share it with him..if you dont understand something in class have him help you..dont over power him or boss him around treat him equally..

on 2/26/2007 ask for his number..just to talk its ok to talk to a guy just as a friend..he'll love that you want to connect with him..

on 2/26/2007 you should deff laugh and as you walk by him..but only if your with your friends..if your laughing at nothing he may think your retarted..if he looks when you laugh smile at him then turn back to your friends and keep the conversation..dont change the subject he may think you forgot what yoyu were talking about..he will remember that smile..

on 9/23/2006 After you have done various things to get his attention, have attended events he is at, seen him in various places and you both can initiate conversation with no awkwardness, attend an event he is at and don't hang around him. Make sure you do something else, with other people (maybe other guys).

on 9/18/2006 Having a dog with you makes it easy for men to approach you. They can ask to say hello to the dog and start a simple conversation with you. My dogs have been known to "get away" right as I walk by a cute guy...it works every time.

Note: the "less girly" the dog, the better this works. A guy might not say "hello" to your mini poodle, but if you have a larger dog, he can say hi without feeling like he's being obvious.

on 8/8/2006 Just walk by him every once in a while.

on 4/3/2006 Just be yourself. When you try to compromise who you are for the sake of a relationship, you end up loosing in the end. If you really like someone I think it is best that you be upfront with them.

on 12/16/2005 You should always act cute. Trust me, guys always love it when a girl thinks positive about herself!

on 11/22/2005 When he comes around, go out of your way for him to notice you. But do not be obvious. Say something to him to spark up a conversation. Look into his eyes and really focus on what he is talking about, even if you don't care. Make sure you talk too. And then after your talk, kindly say, "It's so nice to talk to someone that understands me and really listens." He'll most likely say, "No problem". Not much, but if you're conversation meant anything, he'll be stuck with it for awhile, and will be constantly thinking when will he ever see or talk to you again. Believe it or not, a way to a man's heart is through is stomach, but it's also through understanding him mentally.

on 11/22/2005 We all know that to get a guy to notice you, that you should make that little bit of light conversation. Well, I've found that about in every second subject that comes up, compliment him in some subtle way. If you don't know him that well yet, go for something simple, like. "Wow. You're favorite color is purple? Did you know that that is the color of intelligence?". And it boosts your conversation quite radically more than just ordinary conversation would, after short while. Remember, don't overly compliment. You'll come on too strong, just judge depending on the guy.

on 11/22/2005 Accidentally-on-purpose drop something, say a bag, bend down to pick it up and while he has sensed something has happened he may turn to look at you and catch you bending down 1. That view is sure to catch his attention! 2. He may come to help! 3. he will hopefully see who you are!

on 2/12/2007 I'd have to say the best course of action is to just introduce yourself or say hi. As hard as it is to believe, it's really just as hard for us to talk to you (we all hate rejection). Also, give us compliments on anything, most of us won't be offended even if it is something stupid. Clothing, eyes, talents, whatever it is , lets us know your looking and we'll label you as someone friendly who we can initiate conversations with.

While it's true you shouldn't be overbearing, at the same time don't be standoffish or dismissive. That makes us feel like your trying saying you're not interested.

on 11/22/2005 Become friends with him, then give him a small gift and say "When I saw it I thought you might like it." It makes him realize what a thoughtful and kind person you are.

on 11/22/2005 To get a guy's attention:
When your eyes meet, hold the look for just a moment too long, then look away and smile at the same time. Then, start a small, unimportant, fun conversation with him. Smile a lot, laugh when he is funny, and look at him when you smile. Have confidence and then start with more personal conversations.