Comments on: How to Be a Secret Admirer

on 2/1/2008 Hi Everyone,

The eHow Experts are building a discussion surrounding around Valentine's Day in the eHow forums. If anyone needs some relationship tips or maybe just need a general Valentine's day question answered, feel free to join in the discussion at this URL:

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on 9/17/2007 Another way to send cards and letters to your secret crush is to use a remailing service like texasremail.com. You send them your letter and they will mail it to your crush. They will even address it for you! The postmark will throw them off the trail.

on 2/27/2007 hi, i need some advice badly! i sent some roses and chocs to a girl i like on valentines day. i had them delivered by the florist. i left my details on the card, however i have still not heard from her and not even a thankyou for the flowers? what shall i do or what does it mean.

on 2/14/2007 Depending on what Florist you go to, buying flowers can get kinda pricey. You should have an idea of how much you are going to spend on the flowers and if they are going to be delivered from the shop. It might cost you around (or at least) $50 to get a good bouquet and have it delivered, so keep that in mind. Try to stay cool when in the flower shop because more than likely the person in there is not going to encounter many "Secret Admirers" on a day to day basis (e.g. they'll be asking what kind of bouquet you would like for what price, etc.). Be cool by thinking of the "action" of getting flowers instead of the "person" you are getting them for - that will get you flustered. Extra brownie points if you know what flowers he or she would like or what kind of special bouquet to make for them (just be careful about asking the person right before you buy flowers for them). Say something nice, sweet, or funny on the card that goes with the flowers (i.e. "For a Special Someone"), and not overt like "I want you so bad baby" (I combined this part from other posts). I hope you like my "words of wisdom." I just bought flowers for someone and it was a little harder than expected, so I thought I'd share.

on 6/30/2006 When you're ending the note or letter to someone you like, always end it with, "love, Blank ". Never say anything to wild like," love, your sexy blank." It's too much, and could scare him away.

on 3/13/2006 The point of having a secret admirer is to get the person thinking who might like them, then for them eventually to figure out it's you, so that way you're both happy. So don't make it so obvious it's you, otherwise they might think your too desperate! But don't be so quiet about it they never find out. Just give them hints slowly, and things will have a better chance of going right!

on 11/22/2005 While you may be in the same room with that person; don't let on to them that you like them. That way, if you send a message, they'll have no idea it's from you.

on 6/11/2007 In this hypersensitive society, the days of the secret admirer are gone. If you attempt to play the role of a secret admirer, you will instantly be considered a stalker (with motives that are questionable at best). Women are just not emotionally equipped nowadays to accept a secret admirer for what he is.

on 11/22/2005 I did eCrush...It doesn't work sometimes and it's not so great when you don't know your crush's email. But anyway, if you are going to send stuff to your crush, make sure he doesn't freak out and file a report to the police. Let's just say that I've been down that road...

on 11/22/2005 Ecrush doesn't work too well. I got rejected for using it even though I was 90% sure a girl liked me. It's a turn off to ask some girls behind their backs....

on 11/22/2005 All I have to say is eCrush! It's an online dating service thing that will send him a letter and will find out if he likes you! Go to eCrush.com and try it.

on 11/22/2005 Well if you want to be his/her secret admirer then why not ask one of your friends to put a note or a love letter in his locker. You know you don't need his/her combo - just slip the paper in the little windowlike. It fits through. I've done it before.

on 11/22/2005 You don't want to write the greatest note in the world coupled with roses and the whole nine yards alone. One suggestion is that you add a line in the note the person will repeat to the possible suspect to repeat back. So then you can reveal yourself.

on 11/22/2005 If the person knows it's you, send another message, but change your printing.