Comments on: How to Ask Someone to Be Your Boyfriend

on 11/6/2008 This is so cute. It reminds me of when I was a teenager not so long ago:) Although, I never asked anyone to be my boyfriend.

on 11/5/2008 I agree with NEVER ask a guy to be your bf, men like to conquer vs be conquered. Being an old fashioned girl, I would not do this anyway and in my experience, the guy does tell you when he wants the relationship to be exclusive. the guy who doesn't want to be exclusive is usually the guy who doesn't call when he says he will

on 10/1/2008 I have never asked a guy to "be" my boyfriend. After some time, it is just pretty much a given. Now if there is ANY question, you might want to discuss it with him/her in a delicate manner, as described in the article.

on 9/27/2008 Never ask a guy to be your boyfriend. If he wants to or is ready be invovled with you like that he will ask. If you ask or even pressure him and he agrees, when things go wrong he will throw it back in your face that it was not his idea in the first place. Try using patience or just move on.

on 5/31/2008 Nice instructions! I know that if I ever asked a guy to go from being a friend to a boyfriend, I probably would want to see how dating a while goes before bringing up all the long-term stuff as was suggested. Besides that it is cool to read an article that gives a good idea of what to do-maybe soon I will be using this advice!

on 1/8/2007 It really does make a difference if you ask him out- or if your best friend does. Be confident.
I remember one time when i really liked someone, and when my friend asked her out, he said yes immediately thinking she was asking for herself, and they ended up going out! It broke my heart, but i learned from it- and they are married happily now, and so am i, and i met this guy by asking him by myself!

on 8/8/2006 If you like a boy, just tell him. And If he doesn't like you, forget him. Live your life you'll found the one.

on 8/8/2006 I know that asking a guy out seems really hard, but actually it isn't really. Afraid of being rejected? Well, heres a little trick: If he says no, then say something like: "Okay then, see you later." Make it sound cheerful, that way you will feel much better because you'll still feel confident. And who says that you'll get rejected anyway? Just do it, it's not that hard.

on 8/8/2006 Okay, so you ask your crush out, and he says yes. Everything is great, right? Well, maybe not for long. If the relationship doesn't turn out to be what you wanted, be prepared to break up with him. I know, if your relationship is going well, then you usually wouldn't want to even think of breaking up with him, but what if it turns into a bad relationship? What are you going to do if you aren't prepared to break up? You should prepare to breakup with some one before you ask them out, you don't have to think about it during the relationship, but it's only a healthy one if it can end.

on 11/22/2005 If you are planning to ask a crush to be your boyfriend, make sure he likes you. Spend time with him to make him show he likes you. After a couple of days, ask the question. If he says he likes someone else, just nod your head and say OK. Then he'll feel like he hasn't broke your heart.

on 11/22/2005 Sometimes you might think that a guy is just perfect for you, and you could very well ignore the other side of him. Look for downsides so that you'll know what you're getting into. But don't criticize every little problem; just the signs of an abusive man or anything related.

on 11/22/2005 It is really hard to ask a guy out! I just did it yesterday. You definitely don't want to put any pressure on the guy you're asking out! Ask him in a comfortable place. Another good idea is to ask him over the phone, that way you can read off a piece of paper what you want to say. Good luck!!!

on 11/22/2005 Ask him what your eye color is. Only someone that really cares about you would pay attention to such a small detail.

on 11/22/2005 Take a big breath, bring up a subject that you are both comfortable with and that will lead up to that big question. Get close (but not too close)
then tell him how you feel.

on 11/22/2005 better make sure he likes you back first and then ask him if he wants to be your boyfriend.