Comments on: How to Tell a Woman You Like Her Romantically

on 11/7/2008 I have met this lady on a chat site and we finally came to meet each other and its been going on well for us, she is always there when i need to see her and some times i realy dont know how to tell her i want a more romantic relationship than just the friendship. I have actually told her in different tones my intentions but i still feel she needs me to open up clearly yes ofcourse but how , where is my problem

on 4/15/2007 I have(I actually had) a bro-sis like relationship with a girl untill recently when I realized that I have more feelings for her than just bro-sis feelings. now I want to know whether should I tell her that or not? thanks in advance!

on 11/19/2006 Recently, after reading these tips from the site and comments from other people, i decided to tell the girl i liked her. I didn't expect much, just wanted to get it over and done with, so i can move on. But hey, she told me she likes me as well!!
Jst wanted to share stuff with u all... really, when u like someone, don't waste any opportunities in telling them... no matter what the results turn out to be... you'd feel much better getting your feelings out... to the people reading this article, i wish u all goodluck ^_^

on 9/30/2006 THIS SHOULD WORK...Dont tell her directly, show her that you are intrested in her, show her that you care about her, show her that you can be the one WITHOUT TELLING HER THAT YOU LIKE HER, let her feel it let her know it, and when you see that your feelings towards her are OBVIOUS go ahead tell her u like her BUT dont wait for an answer just TELL HER...and thn give her some time if she likes you she will show you if not she might just need more signs or even steps from you, it depends on the woman...But usualy if she doesn like you she wont let the time to tell her you like her come, THATS WHY SHOW HER BEFORE TELLING HER...Good luck ;)

on 8/8/2006 To those who say that you can't have a male-female friendship without one being attracted to the other, I say get over yourself! By your logic, if you're friends with a girl, and you're not attracted to her, then by default, she must be attracted to you!

If you like one of your female friends in a more-than-friendship sort of way, tell her. If she doesn't feel the same way, accept it and be cool about it. Hanging out with people of the opposite sex often leads to weird situations, but if you deal with them in a mature, open manner and then move on, you'll find yourself with good, solid friendships.

on 6/30/2006 It would be quite extraordinary for any man to make it through his life without heart break. The trick I learned from experience, is how to accept it.

1) Analyze - How severe was her reaction? Does she still consider you a friend? Are you better off? Those types of questions

2) Rationalize - This is real life. And with real life, comes real pain. It's a fact that lots of people have been heartbroken before and you're not alone.

3) Withdraw - While this is not for everyone, withdrawing can be a healthy way of coping. Resting is a very good thing to do if you think it necessary

4) Accept - Just think. Perhaps your better off. Maybe there's someone better for you. She might still be your friend.

on 6/30/2006 If you like one of your female friends in a more-than-friendship sort of way, tell her. If she doesn't feel the same way, accept it and be cool about it. Hanging out with people of the opposite sex often leads to weird situations, but if you deal with them in a mature, open manner and then move on, you'll find yourself with good, solid friendships.

on 3/22/2006 If you tell her and she doesn't like you, it will backfire. Let us say a girl likes you, and she tells you that. Let us also say she's ugly. What would you think? Probably eww? Right. Show her you like her.

on 3/12/2006 I was good friends with a guy for two years and didn't want to ask him out even though I had a crush on him. I thought if he was interested, he'd say something, and I didn't want to get rejected. Finally he just asked, and we've been boyfriend/girlfriend ever since. So if you like a woman romantically, just ask her out. She might feel the same way about you!

on 3/2/2006 I would normally wait until we've been out (just us together) a couple of times. At the end of a night, swallow your fear and say it straight out, give her physical signs of affection if the mood is right, then head off back home to put on some celebration music and knock back some beers and play air guitar. You should feel proud of yourself either way. Oh yeah, never ask her what she feels - you'll know!

on 11/22/2005 I think you should just be yourself and let her make the move, then acknowledge it with lots of interest. I don't like to go after her, because rejection hurts and it destroys your confidence to go after other potential soul mates. Whatever is meant to happen will happen, let fate take its natural course.

on 11/22/2005 I know it's hard to tell a girl that you like her, but don't think about how to tell her. Think about what if you don't tell her? Life is all about risks, so she may be the one and if you don't tell her you'll never know. The how to tell her part will come naturally. A good way to make sure she feels the same as you do is to drop some hints telling her that you like her, but tell her that you like her before she figures it out that you like her.

on 11/22/2005 Be confident! It sounds hard, but if you work by talking to girls that she is friends with (that may come in handy later) then you can build it up. Then ask her out, but don't get a friend to do it for you, because you may come across as too shy.

on 11/22/2005 I just had a D.O.R. (Defining of Relationship) with a good friend of mine. I had to tell her that I liked her more, and differently than the other girls in our group of friends. This girl also has several guy friends. I knew I had to say something before one of them did. I knew what I had to do, so I did it (very nervously I might add). But, she said she was glad I told her because she had been thinking the same thing about me.

on 11/22/2005 "To conquer without risk is to triumph without glory" - Pierre Corneille

Other than that, be yourself (and not some cookie-cutter 'playa'), and most girls will start to notice you. Plus, nice guys might lose some battles, but they will win the war.