Comments on: How to Forget About an Ex

on 11/17/2008 For Jaquiw: He was immature and had no care but for his own needs, surely you see that now. You are worthy to have someone who cares for you and about your needs and is TRUSTING. If you are looking for a solid, lasting relationship, you must "kiss a lot of toads" but don't commit yourself so deeply that you lose a part of yourself in the bargain. Take time to get to know people. Ask others who know them: what kind of person is he away from me? How does he act? If you are looking for fun and games, there are plenty out there for that. Real relationships are built on time, trust and maturity.

on 11/17/2008 For Rockin Rob Said:
Immaturity is one reason your ex talked and acted as she did. The relationship may not have been as close as you thought. Perhaps she did not care as much as she intimated. A relationship NOT built on trust is like building a house in quicksand. Slowly but surely it is going to sink.

on 11/17/2008 For Angee: Move forward and it is a lesson and not a mistake. Learn from the relationship and don't be so hard on yourself. Forgive yourself and learn to take more time before committing yourself to a serious relationship. Take time to know the person and find out if they are truly who you would like to spend time and share your innermost thoughts with. Be friends first! If you are a prayerful person, pray for the abuser. Do not be silent . . .if he attempts to harm you again or stalk you, contact the authorities.

on 11/15/2008 I am really depressed and angry at myself because I didn't listen to my parents about a certain guy. He really abused me and controlled me in every way...he made me lose my dignity and respect. I feel so stupid and used he really treated me like garbage and made me feel worthless and hopeless. I know now that I will find someone that is worth loving and that he will be perfect for me and gentle with me, not like this brutal bastard he was really crazy and I am constantly blaming myself but I guess that is what he wants. He has no mercy and that is unfortunate for him.

on 11/6/2008 My lover and i have recently finished things because we couldent trust one another, i know we would have been good together but you need trust!! Anyways my question is, why would she want to break up in a horrible/cruel way, saying in detail what shes been doing with some one else!!! is it me or do i not understand women?? Why did she want to hurt me?

on 11/1/2008 oh thats nothing, i was with my first love for 18 months and he was sleeping with his sister in the same house we slept in together every night...i lived with him..... and when I confronted him, he told all of his friends that I was crazy and that I made it up, how do you get over THAT? Its all true.

on 10/21/2008 it so hard to give up those years we have each other's company cause we're planning to get married next year, but i have to. I cant bear his unfaithfulness even it only happened once. It so hard for me.

on 10/21/2008 im breaking up my bf right now cause he made a huge mistakes,it not easy to let go those years we have each other but i cant bear his unfaithfulness anymore even it happened only once.It so hard, im so depress and felt lonely.

on 10/7/2008 u should have what?! I'm dying to know!

on 10/5/2008 I'm going through a similar thing right now. I've found that one way for me to deal with it is by writing in my own blog. I suppose its just a way to vent off without the pressure.

http://agardenerslifeinmotion.blogspot.com/

on 9/12/2008 My ex girlfriend left me just about 2 years ago..after us being together for 2. in the begining it was tought cuz she was actually one of the few or the one I really loved, can't say love cuz I never was actually sencere to her but I really liked her and the time (2 years) makes u get used to the person and due that hard to forget..No 2 years passed and u may say I have everything a normal man want to have..I have a nice jobb, beaufiful girlfriend, beautiful car (my first) and the best off all a adoroble and just amazing son (Alex, 6 month) I'm 24 myself. well I was just sitting here listening 2 songs I didn't hear for a while and it made me think about my ex and I got here somehow. I know even if I wasn't so good against her I did love her and I know that first love is hard to forget and this article telling that u can't ever do forget made me feel better but I read it 2 late I should h

on 8/29/2008 i was dating a guy for three years in half. Went threw alot of crazy things. it was on and off after 1year of relationship always put me down, telling me mean things after a while he would come back being a sweetheart. He was back like the guy i was in love with at the very begining of our relationship. we would stop talking for 6 month get back and so on so on. Finally i met another guy that changed everything about me, my life style,work, school. Made me happy for once in my life and im being honest before him i had nothing my parents are very old school so being hurt in not in their vocabulary, they would tell me to stop being sad and get over it. they werent able to understand what i was going threw. i was with him for almost 1 year we had complication at the begining of our relationship. His the type of guy that is very sensitive and emotional and very confused. Towards the end it b

on 8/25/2008 I was in seeing a guy for 6 months. he told me he likes me, has feelings for me and cares about me but he cannot love anyone. After hearing this i stopped seeing his continued for a few moths. then one day, my friend found that he is seeing another woman whilst still seeing me. after hearing this i dumped him by text message. he has never replied. i bumped into him again and stil like him. we are not quite friends yet. Please advice: how can i restart our friendship again considering I dumped him. I'm sure he is still interested but he is very very stubbor. Thanks. Charlotte

on 8/19/2008 i dont know wht to do with empty heart feeling in my case we both dont want to get seprate but her parents are not ready to accept our relation ship .she tried a lot to convince her mother but in vain...i always cry after thinking abt the time we had together .. help me how to give away the feeling even though we dont want to get seprate its jus the circumstances with which we are bind mail me is u haf any solution cyber_pitcher@yahoo.com

on 8/13/2008 i have that problem to, getting out of bed, and when i do, hoping everything is back to normal, then anger from 2 years wasted. it all stinks