Comments on: How to Avoid Being "Flamed"

on 2/15/2006 If you start off your post by saying something along the lines of, "Hi everyone, I'm new to this forum, so please take it easy on me," or "Hi everyone, I did a search on this topic and I didn't see it anywhere, but forgive me if I missed it and therefore sound redundant but..." People tend to be a lot nicer if they see you're a "n00b," but trying.

on 11/22/2005 It's easy when you're writing rather than speaking, especially to people who don't know you personally, to be unintentionally unclear. Sometimes what you write can be interpreted more than one way. Sometimes the words you choose "sound" different to readers than you intended. It's sometimes a good idea to read your post out loud, to see if you catch anything that might sound funny to other ears--especially if it's on a controversial topic!

on 11/22/2005 Only you can control how you respond to something. If you lose your cool, take a break, have a bite and go surfing. Don't respond in anger. The rage of hatred can inspire highly creative yet vicious writing that you will later regret. Don't fan the flames - walk away from the fire. And remember: a mature person will apologize. Enjoy your time on the www and in life!

on 11/22/2005 Before asking any technical questions, do a search for answers online. Find out if this is something very basic, and if it is, don't ask about it on a newsgroup. Many computer experts are very touchy about being asked what they consider "lamer" questions.

on 11/22/2005 Stay cool and to yourself be true.

on 11/22/2005 ALWAYS check your own spelling and grammar, and NEVER check other people unless they ask. If it is worth posting, it is worth posting well.