Comments on How to Impress a Man

If only comfortable was better accepted. sigh... Of course men that are high maintenance from date one are probably not worth the time.

Hmmm...interesting advice. I agree with one of the comments that stated that you should not try to impress a guy/girl by being someone else. However, I have noticed that becoming a more confident version of yourself is rather alluring. It wasn't pretending to be someone else, it was becoming more extrovert.

Hmmm...interesting advice. I agree with one of the comments that stated that you should not try to impress a guy/girl by being someone else. However, I have noticed that becoming a more confident version of yourself is rather alluring. It wasn't pretending to be someone else, it was becoming more extrovert.

I like this article, but it wld have been better with pix. 4*

I like this article, but it wld have been better with pix. 4*

You should not be a talkative man or woman because silence is golden.Ur aim is to gain a job.

You should not be a talkative man or woman because silence is golden.Ur aim is to gain a job.

Honesty! I have to admit, people in general tend to have this flirtatious 'date' persona that they go into when they meet someone that they like. As a guy I can't say that I'm a fan of it. There's nothing more cringing than a lady who forces her laughter. I think having your own ideas and a driving force will help you in the long run. Women that have a passion for something is a big turn on. Honesty is the best policy

Honesty! I have to admit, people in general tend to have this flirtatious 'date' persona that they go into when they meet someone that they like. As a guy I can't say that I'm a fan of it. There's nothing more cringing than a lady who forces her laughter. I think having your own ideas and a driving force will help you in the long run. Women that have a passion for something is a big turn on. Honesty is the best policy

Why are you trying to impress a guy? If you are looking for a long term relationship then just be your self and let those who like who you are come after you. If you get a guy by being someone else then you are going to get very worn out keeping up that persona esp. if the realtionship is for the long term.

Why are you trying to impress a guy? If you are looking for a long term relationship then just be your self and let those who like who you are come after you. If you get a guy by being someone else then you are going to get very worn out keeping up that persona esp. if the realtionship is for the long term.

Living your life - It's easy to be obsessive about your guy when first dating. I always try to take a step back and put myself first especially in the beginning of a new romantic relationship. It's sexy to have your own life--it shows the guy that you are your own person. It also makes you independent of him--if the relationship doesn't work out--you still would have your life intact. That's important--putting yourself and treating yourself first--

Living your life - It's easy to be obsessive about your guy when first dating. I always try to take a step back and put myself first especially in the beginning of a new romantic relationship. It's sexy to have your own life--it shows the guy that you are your own person. It also makes you independent of him--if the relationship doesn't work out--you still would have your life intact. That's important--putting yourself and treating yourself first--

This is from my own personal point of view (I'm a guy) of what I look for in a woman to impress me: I like a woman to be modest yet secure within herslef, not loud and boisterous; not full of herself, to where she thinks the guy has to cater to her every whim "just because he's the guy, and she's the girl". I cater to whims when I care, with *reason*, for the girl! Not "just because they're the girl". ;) I like when a woman dresses conservatively on all occasions! It shows that she's not *trying* to make others drool over her; but is confident and secure enough in herself to dress 'non ****ty'. It shows that she respects herself, and thus gives *me* reason to respect *her*, in return. It shows she's willing to be with *one* person (hopefully me), not *just anyone on the street* at the same time. *Trying* to impress someone makes one only look pathetic. Don't try, just BE! If you're not yourself, then talk it out with a counselor first, before attempting to be in a relationship with another person. Honesty is truly the best policy. You don't have to let us know your deepest, darkest secrets just yet! That's left for when you're deep into a relationship to where you'll know it's the right time he'll accept it and still stay with you. ;) But be truthful about many important things that you KNOW need to be said within the first few weeks / months (or even hours, depending on how deep the secret is) you get to know someone, if you expect the relationship to last. If you're not ever honest with someone about a trait of yours that you're hiding from them, then they're only *partially* atttracted to you, not *fully*! How does that make YOU feel? It's similar to a guy putting on a mask of Brad Pitt and attracting all the girls, but deep inside he feels like crap for not being who he really is inside, and knowing the girls aren't crowding around him... for HIM! Faults can be worked out with each other, (and this actually brings two people closer together) rather than meeting "the perfect person" that [supposedly] has nothing wrong with them. When you let someone know of a fault, let them also know you're willing to work on fixing it; as they should do themselves, in return, as well. I like a woman that can kid around when the time is right, and truly be themselves! About getting your first date a gift? If it has to be on the first date, I'd do it after I talked with them, and let them know I liked what I heard and saw, and thus gave me reason behind my gift; it's better than the usual and shallow "Well, I'm *supposed* to get him/her flowers because that's just the typical thing to do". Getting someone a gift because you saw who they are, is MUCH more impressive, than just doing it because you think you HAVE to, to somehow "earn points" in some game. This is not a game, it's a possible relationship. That's no joke. :)