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Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 My first kiss was very romantic. We were watching a movie when he gently kissed my cheek. I kissed his (showing it was OK). Then he gently started kissing my cheek going down to my lips where he gently pressed his against mine. Then we started kissing. I think every girl should have that experience...How can she say no? :)
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 The first rule is to go for it! If the girl raises her head, it usually means she wants to kiss. The second rule is that on the first kiss, you should kiss her for about 3 seconds, then resume dancing. About 30 seconds after that, you can try to kiss them again.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 To guys: When you first kiss her, lightly touch the girl's chin and pull her in slowly. That way, she's not surprised by a tongue stuffed in her face.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 Girls, don't be afraid to kiss the guys first, because guys won't reject you, EVER. Trust me...Even if they didn't like you, they'd still kiss you.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 Try to do a soft, delicate kiss and then move on slowly to a warm one. After about 10 seconds or when your partner is enjoying it, slide your tongue in and massage your date's tongue. Kissing up the neck to the lips works well too! They will melt into your arms.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 Be careful about just rushing in for the first kiss. When my boyfriend tried to do that, I thought he just wanted a hug and it was really weird. So indicate what you're up to (look into their eyes, smile at them, etc.), then go in for the kiss.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 During my first kiss, my date stuck his tongue in my mouth and we made out for about 5 minutes. I really liked him, but the tongue really startled me. Always wait and gradually slip the tongue in and make the girl feel good and want more. Also, don't always give your date the kiss. This will leave him or her wanting it worse next time.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 OK, guys, if it's the girl's first kiss, don't use your tongue at first because it can be really intimidating. Also, we LOVE it if you surprise us, like if we are in the middle of a sentence and you just kiss us.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 Guys need to make the first move in a kiss. Starting with the lips is great, and then move to the neck.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 Get two drinks, one hot and one cold. One of you should drink the hot one to heat up your mouth. The other should drink the icy one. Then, go in for the kiss. The person who drank the cold drink will feel their mouth heat up. This is not a beginner's kiss. Wait until you you are looking for more exciting kisses than just regular kisses before you try it.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 I don't know. Maybe I'm crazy, but...
Hair caressing - Good
Face holding - Bad
Biting lower lip (softly) - Good
Biting upper lip, or biting hard - Bad
Tongue - With great discretion
Eskimo kisses - Good
Teasing (guys doing it)- GREAT
Slob - bad
Bad breathe (or bad-tasting mouth) - BAD
Soft lips - Keep them that way for the entire date, please. Don't lick your barbed-wire lips just before kissing if we have been staring disgustedly at them all night...
Rubbing back - Too forward
"I love you" - Catch phrase, don't do it...
Some like it rough, some like it soft - It is ALWAYS safer to start off with a soft kiss, then if they want it rough, you can partake in a more rowdy second embrace...
"Can I kiss you?" - NO!
"I want to kiss you so badly right now..." - OH YES!
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 I wanna clear this up: BRACES ARE OK! I had them and no guy I kissed was ever the least bit bothered by them, they WON'T hurt you, unless you're grinding your tounge on them or something! TRUST ME!
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 If the right moment did not present itself earlier in the date, then by the time you get to the door it is too late. Sudden passion is inappropriate. A peck on the cheek is all that is warranted. If there is any chemistry, it will still be there on the second date.
Don't blow your chance for a second date by jumping the gun.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 It is great to be surprised sometimes, but I personally would like to know what's comming for me, especially if it is the first kiss. I think it IS romantic and respectfull to ask. Just a simple "May I kiss you?". Make it sweet, slow and soft. A simple lip to lip (no tongue or bitting). Be spontaneous. Hold your partner, look into their eyes. Make it last, make them remember you.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 set up is everything, if its your first time with a girl/guy start by slowly rubbing their nose with yours. Then slowly, move your nose past theirs, slowly, yet lovingly, against their throat and neck. after carresing the neck, slowly move back up, but make sure your partner is ready. then just move your lips over your partners, it helps if your partner is shorter than you, to lean against a wall, sliding down so they can stand between your legs, seeing eye to eye is a huge help.