Comments on: How to Make a Great First Impression on a Date

on 6/6/2008 These are some wonderful tips. The message I feel from it is the point of presenting an air of sincerity. Too many people I know try to make a good impression on the first date, and they think that it means being someone other than themselves. They don’t realize that when you wear another face, eventually you’re going to take that face off they when the other person sees who you really are, they may not really know which one is real.

Thanks for the great suggestions.

on 1/31/2007 Just be yourself, smile, be courteous, listen to the other person, and see how the date goes from there.

on 8/15/2006 If you're gonna complain about something, like if you don't like brown shirts, make sure your date isn't wearing a brown shirt. And if this accident happens, be sure to let them know that it's not that shade of brown you were talking about.

on 8/8/2006 Yo girls....
this one will really help ya out! Ok... So it's your first date wit dis guy! Don't check out other guys! Keep your eyes on him! If ya don't then he will know something is up!

on 7/22/2006 It may sound silly, but both men and women need to make sure they don't slouch- its very unattractive. Conversely, sitting up straight or leaning forward with shoulders back is much more flattering on every individual. People in their 20's and 30's aren't taught about posture as much, but it makes a big difference!

Also, remember what stories you tell your date so that on your second or third date, you don't start repeating yourself and looking stupid. I've done this a couple of times and it's never flattering!

on 7/9/2006 When you ask a lady out on a first date, always take her to a place where you’re comfortable with the atmosphere and avoid any circumstances that would change your level of confidence. It’s the guys job to plan the evening. Women worry, and need to worry, about how they look. That's their main concern. You are the one in control of everything that happens on the date. It doesn't matter where you go as long as you remain in control.

Be spontaneous and do things she doesn't expect, but be sure these things are acceptable. A bar is not a great place for a first date. It's low class and other guys may hit on her, which could make you jealous and do something dumb. Don't think too much, but don’t guess out of panic.

Always be coolheaded and pay attention to what she's saying. If something bad happens, don't add drama to the situation, just play it like it's no big deal and it doesn't bother you. Don't try to plan what you’re going to talk about, just let it happen, but avoid things that might raise an argument like religion or politics.

Don't flash around money. Tease her a lot. Don't be nervous to come into physical contact with her, but don't hang all over her. Be casually polite and open doors, stuff like that. Tell her she's beautiful, but don't say it more than 4 times, it gets old.

Don't get drunk, but let her get drunk as long as you’re going to take care of her afterward. People tend to connect faster under pressure, like when you share a period of high adrenaline. Scary movies or roller coasters work well for this.

on 6/30/2006 If you're going to ask a girl out, think of something more imaginative than the cinema. Girls love places where they can talk to you and have fun with you; not watching a film, especially for the first date. They want to get to know you.

on 2/14/2006 Things that ruined so many dates for me:
Shyness in conversation: an unwillingness to go outside what we've already talked about, or how we've talked.
Gross body stuff: Scratching itchy places, touching pimples, having dandruff or scratching my head, etc.
The first kiss: I was cursed with bad timing. Always bad timing.
Saying stupid stuff: Saying it, then going too far talking about it.

on 1/5/2006 Ladies, don't wear something too low cut, especially if you are well endowed. Men's eyes will be naturally drawn to your d?colletage. This may or may not offend you. You may or may not do this on purpose. Just keep in mind that if you do wear something that is low-cut, that men's eyes will be more drawn to that instead of your eyes. It's not because they're perverts, it's because they're men.

on 11/30/2005 Dont talk about the normal stuff like where did u go to school, have any brothers/sisters. that stuff is Boring! talk about whats going on in the world if she/ he starts aiming for the boring stuff say something along the lines of," hey save the normal stuff for when we're picking out the names of our kids." or something thats funny that changes topics.

on 11/22/2005 Give a lady at least a few hours notice before a date (we want to look good for you). Do not talk only about boring subjects such as what you eat or what exercise you do every week. It's nice to be able to joke, flirt and talk about common interests. Don't go in for a kiss on the first date, a peck on the cheek and "I had a really good time" is enough. Don't make the lady feel inferior or unintelligent. Make her feel good. Make an effort with your appearance. Don't drink. Show that you look after yourself and respect yourself, you will gain respect that way. No talk of an ex for as long as possible. Talk about how you are attracted to her, what you like about her, how long you have pursued her.

on 11/22/2005 Guys, always be gentle and slow on the first kiss. Afterward you can get more daring. And girls, if you feel like your being rushed by your man, then tell them. If they don't stop what they're doing then make them stop!

on 11/22/2005 Guys, go 90 percent of the way and have the girl go the other 10 percent. Remember that a woman will know everything they need to know from the first kiss (like if they want to stay with you or dump you).

on 11/22/2005 Guys - focus on your date. Don't look at her lips and don't picture in your mind what she looks like naked. Focus on her eyes. This way she knows you're paying attention to her.
Women - focus on your date also. Yes, it might be boring when a guy talks about sports, but just go along with his conversation. Name a sports team (no matter what sport it is), they still like to hear what teams you like. Even if you don't like any team, or don't watch any sports, still say a team name.

on 11/22/2005 When their birthday comes around, ask them what they want. They will most often say, "Nothing." That's your chance to show your interest. Don't stop until you get at least a small answer.