Comments on: How to Find Your Ideal Partner

on 12/20/2007 You're right, Barry. People don't have to be identical, nor exact opposites, to be a match. It's finding out our similarities and differences and knowing whether we can live with them or not. Like you said, love and acceptance is the bottom line. Thanks for dropping by!

on 12/16/2007 Excellent article. I have found by understanding personalities, you can better understand others. What I find fascinating is that opposite personalities types more so than not, get married. In my personality classes I ask that question, its not 100%, but more in the range of 70 percent or so. So the key is not necessarily if we are the "same" but how much we can embrace personality diversity and accept/love people for who they are. I like your article because you have people questioning the key aspects of personality so people are aware when they go into the relationship. What I'm finding in people who divorce is one or both could not accept the personality of the other (except when abuse is involved...don't care what personality you are but some things are not acceptable). Long post but I really like your thoughts on this subject.