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on 2/8/2008 All the points are really valid and great tips on what to do to try and meet someone. You'll find if you use the SHI Symbol to help you 'break the ice' or 'approach somone' you'll find it so much easier. It's a great conversation starter, it really works and you can use/wear it 24/7 in all your everyday activities. Go try it out and you'll see what I mean. It's for all Singles out there and has been released in the Australia, UK and the USA.
on 1/26/2008 thank u for the help but there is one thing that I'm stuck at and that is after the small talk then what. do u ask directly for her number or what?? coz I'm good at the small talks and then i wonder now what??
on 10/18/2007 I like this article! Thank you! Seems like a good sequence of steps. But could you please write an article about step #1? (Step 1: "Become a master at approaching and charming women in less-threatening situations"). I'd love if you could break step 1 down, or give some ideas on how to develop the skills for just that step. Thanks!
on 10/18/2007 Key guy, aren't you the guy who wrote a bitter ehow on how to take revenge on a wife "and rub it in" her face? The overall point of the ehow was good (improve yourself to forget), but when someone suggested you might be immature somewhat to wanna go around trying to punish an ex, you responded: "and if you dont think that way your lying to yourself. we all have that thought after a break up supressing it is kind of insane." I just want to know the kind of a person these comments about women being mean are coming from.
on 10/18/2007 I like this since it isn't specific and generally useful to any guy.
on 10/17/2007 Forget the charisma and all the social skills do not stand a chance against a fist full of hundred dollar bills.
on 10/17/2007 STEP 6: Make sure your health insurance is paid up, because chances are you're eventually going to run into a boyfriend or two who will not be charmed by your desperate attempts to talk to hump his girlfriend.
on 10/17/2007 I met my current wife by approaching her in a book store. I saw her out front on the sidewalk right before the store opened - she really turned my head but I chickened out and she walked in the store before I could move. Fortunately I got a second chance because I saw her again in the store and this time I didn't choke. As was suggested in this article, I just went up to her and made small talk about the subject of the books in the section where we were both looking for a similar book. Got her number, etc and we've been together over 15 years. I met my previous wife the same way only in reverse - she approached me!
on 10/17/2007 I usually just pull out my willy and twirl it around. That usually gets their attention and gives us a good starting point for a meaningful conversation.
on 10/17/2007 This is some of the worst dating/meeting people advice I have ever read. It is so full of the typical stupid lack of understanding of body language and science of attraction. I have studied attraction most of my adult life and The most predatory and imposing thing you can do to a woman is walk up to her and square off in front of her. That's an immediate turn off. Oh, and telling a woman you just met how beautiful she is, is so totally brain dead. As if the "Perfect 10" you are approaching has NEVER been told how hot she is. Please. Go read a romance novel. You know what women eat up? Body language and intrigue. Present yourself with a strong masculine posture but with a non threatening approach (say side by side, shoulder to shoulder) and build intrigue with humor, making fun of her, and confidence in yourself. It's a winning recipie and the foundation of what pick up artists teach.
on 10/16/2007 cont..part #2 also..just because you see a woman that you want to meet... doesn't mean she wants to meet you.... even after the nice chat... this lady might not be interested in you.... but... this should not make you mad or upset.... what have you lost... not a thing... (and not a penny) but what you have gained... is the nice experiance of meeting... chatting... and being a damm nice guy...and who knows... you could easy run into this lady agian... and because you were so nice.. the next time you meet... the coffee and chat might be in your near future...
on 10/16/2007 first of all... alot what was wrote here is crap... but alot is good... talking to every one.. old ladies... fat ladies... black, white ladies... gray hair or green hair... just talking to any lady... is good for you because it starts to open you up... gets people to see the real you... the friendly you.. but for god sakes don't tell any woman i like you.... instead it would be alot nicer to say ... hey... i sure enjoyed our chat... maybe we could meet for coffee sometime... can we exchange phone number...
on 10/16/2007 Speaking to the comments below: Response to: "Think of how you would feel if someone put a hand up in your face if you were late for an appointment. Consider the person you'd be inconveniencing." Speaking of a worst-case-scenario interpretation. The reality is that (excuse me just a second -> genuine compliment) lasts exactly 2.7 seconds to do. If the woman is in a mind-blowing, life-altering hurry (her father is dying in a hospital and she must reach him in exactly 234 seconds)... then yes... she'd be inconvenienced. The reality is that in 99.999% of real-world situations(even when a woman is in a genuine hurry), she is extremely flattered and smiles a huge smile as she says "wow, thат made my day so MUCH! I'm in a hurry, but THANK YOU" (as she's slowly starting to pick back her pace). Most of them spend the rest of their day bragging to their friends about what happened later
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