Comments on: How to Get Sex

on 10/18/2007 - Knowing what to do when she gives you her number
Take her number and talk more. Don't be like "I got her number, I win", you should only take her number if you can't get logistics (take her somewhere else, bar or coffee).

-Be prepared to mess up

Girls like guys who won't take you too seriously. Girls know better we are human and make a lot errors.

- Knowing what to do when she doesn't give you her number
Dismiss it. Continue talking. Also don't come asking her number out of the blue. Try it to be smooth like it's just a minor detail to both get together.
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on 10/18/2007 - Knowing what to say to a girl when you approach her

It's important to expand this. Don't get canned, don't pre-plan "word-by-word" or you will not be fully "present".

Get a list of things you would like to talk about.

Good topics: Travelling, family and art.
Bad topics: Politics, Ethnicy and Religion.
These topics can get you easily in a negation/defensive state, which leads to you arguing, and finally to nowhere with women, actually don't argue with anyone (make that a rule).

- Knowing [...] opportunity for sex
- Knowing [...] practical issues and barriers to having sex
This should be only thing to pre-plan.
Place A (where you meet women), Place B (the place you take them after), to Place C (Home). Place A (where you meet women), Place B (the place you take them after), to Place C (Home). Make a consistent plan that works for you.