Comments on: How to End affair with married man

on 10/15/2008 lonelyinCp,

I am also married and seeing another man who is married. Don't feel bad about your husband not wanting to be with you anymore. Mine seems like he has no desire to be with me - he's 32 and I'm 27!!! For whatever reason this happens. We've only been married for 5 years. The Man that I am seeing now is an old friend I saw again after 13 years. We've always liked each other, but nothing ever happened. This man wants me and cannot get enough of me...who is going to resist this feeling. If you truely do not love this man you are having an affair with, it should not bother you if he stands you up - think of it as his loss. What the hell, have fun having orgasms, no matter how old you are - you have needs and should not feel bad for what you are doing. You're husband should be fulfilling your needs, but the truth is he is not.

on 9/27/2008 I've been sseing another man for at least 3 months. He's married is my neighor he's myy landlord??!! It just happened.. He's 36 I"m 47. We have been married for 13 years. He's excting and fun, my husband has no desire to have sex with me anymore so I looked elsewhere...Sometimes I feel really bad but I can't stop it.. We meet places and go places together without our spouses knowing...I'm not in love with him, but the sex is so great. I know this is wrong and everytime he does something ,like stand me up I know I should end it. But I feel so alone in my marriage....I want someone to want me ....My husband is older than me and he says he doesn't have what it take anymore, and I can't remember the last time I had an orgasm......any suggestions??

on 6/19/2008 OH, puleeze. Unless he is paying for your rent and you are still dating other dudes, drop him, he will have a nice family and you will wake up one morning dried up with no condo and no jewelry.

on 3/11/2008 Why do you want it to end? I love you. I know we can't spend every second together but the time we have is fantastic!

on 2/16/2008 Basically he's treating you like an unpaid ****, if you're involved with a married man, At lease a **** gets paid.

on 2/16/2008 Basically the married man is using you as an unpaid ****, that's the reality of it. At ;east the **** gets something.

on 7/11/2007 i totally agree, its not an easy thing to do especially if you care for him, eventhough you know what you doing is wrong

on 5/29/2007 It's NOT easy to end the affair, not always. Not when you deeply love him. We also offer support at http://www.the-other-woman.com/