Comments on How to Put a Child Up for Adoption

i have four kids and i am 21 my husband hates them and wants his life back so i am gonna be living on the street because my family hates me and cant help so my kids are being put up for adoption i am call the caseworker tomorrow i am so upset i love my kids more than life itself and i pray that god watches over them

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I am a recent high school graduate with an 11 month old daughter. I am 19-years-old and do not have a job, and my family's situation is leaving us in a financial rut that we are sinking deeper and deeper into. I need to find a family that can care for, love and support my little girl. Her name is Sophi Elizabeth, and she is the happiest strongest little baby girl I have ever known of. This is so hard for me but I know that it is the right thing to do. She needs a family to love her unconditionally and financially without any hesitation or struggling. This will be hard for all of us to do, but I know if is the right thing to do. And if she remembers be, then I hope she will one day understand that I DO love her, and that I did this because it is best for her.

halo. my name is ndapewa martin and i am 16years old. i am lookin for adoptive parents tht are wiling to take me in and care for me. im from namibia in africa and life here is not as good as it should be. my father is in jail and thngs for me are hell. my mother has kicked me out and has abandoned me. i would just like to feel the warmth and love of a family. please if anyone can help me i wuld highly appreciate it

i had a very complicated pregnancy and now have a very complicated child. I felt that having an abortion was not my place to take her life. Instead had my 1st baby born at 27 weeks, she was 2lbs 4oz. She was in the hospital for about 7 months of her life. She has had mulitple surgerys, and is still on oxygen. She doesnt eat anything by mouth, but through her gtube. I had to quit my job, my boyfriend has been supporting me for the past year. I have been feeling very overwhelmed and depressed lately. I have been concedering adopiton. Not sure what to do...

to emily85said...did you find a family to adopt? we are looking to adopt. we are a young married couple in are 3o's who have 3 loving boys.

eah I am pregnant right now and no job and a little girl and really honestly im considering for both. i have no support from my family nor friends nor my husband which recently we got seperated. it kills me but what can I do? I can't financially provide let alone emotionally. I have a social worker and have tried to find help within the state and its not looking too good right now. It kills me but I would rather be able to sleep at night knowing they are taken care of instead of me stressing wondering where I will get clothes and diapers and money for transportation for dr appts. I am emotionally depressed and stressed myself. not good for my kids to be around.

Open adoptions can work and I highly recommend them.

Umm.... The "difficulty level" on this page says "easy" ... I don't think making an adoption plan for your child would be "easy." I would say "super-challenging," if that's one of the categories. And please don't label this "how to put a child up for adoption" -- makes it sound like you're giving a pet away (plus, it's "easy"!) -- how about "making an adoption plan"? More compassionate, right??

Sara~Your family should not make the decision for you. You are the one that will have to support the baby. Considering adoption is not being lazy or selfish! Raising a child is the hardest job of all. I have a 10 year old son and once he was born, it was never about me...everything I did revolved around him. My husband and I are looking at adopting in the near future. I know it has been a couple of months since you posted your comment, however, I will pray that you make the decision that is best for you both!

Sara~Your family should not make the decision for you. You are the one that will have to support the baby. Considering adoption is not being lazy or selfish! Raising a child is the hardest job of all. I have a 10 year old son and once he was born, it was never about me...everything I did revolved around him. My husband and I are looking at adopting in the near future. I know it has been a couple of months since you posted your comment, however, I will pray that you make the decision that is best for you both!

I'm living in a foreign country,with 2 kids

I'm living in a foreign country,with 2 kids

I've recently become a single parent,although to be honest,I was a single parent long before the father of my kids left us.For yrs I've looked after the kids by myself without much help from him.We lived together but I paid all the bills,took cake of all the kids needs.In the begining I thought that he was just having a hard time getting a job,starting up a business or whatever.I thought,once he got his act together,he'd be more responsible,then one day he just left.I'm leaving in a foreign country,with 2 kids

I've recently become a single parent,although to be honest,I was a single parent long before the father of my kids left us.For yrs I've looked after the kids by myself without much help from him.We lived together but I paid all the bills,took cake of all the kids needs.In the begining I thought that he was just having a hard time getting a job,starting up a business or whatever.I thought,once he got his act together,he'd be more responsible,then one day he just left.I'm leaving in a foreign country,with 2 kids

dont termanate adoption is for the best kill a baby ever have not born yet is a sin

dont termanate adoption is for the best kill a baby ever have not born yet is a sin

I've recently discovered I'm three months pregnant and I'm terrified at the prospect. At 19 years old I still want to do all the things normal teenagers do, not to mention finish college and get a decent job. When I suggested adoption to my friends and family, they claimed I was lazy and selfish. I don't think I'm able to give my baby the life it deserves, I'd love to have kids at one point but I think I'm far too young. Now I feel guilty for considering adoption but it still seems like the best option. I'm at a loss of what to do!

I've recently discovered I'm three months pregnant and I'm terrified at the prospect. At 19 years old I still want to do all the things normal teenagers do, not to mention finish college and get a decent job. When I suggested adoption to my friends and family, they claimed I was lazy and selfish. I don't think I'm able to give my baby the life it deserves, I'd love to have kids at one point but I think I'm far too young. Now I feel guilty for considering adoption but it still seems like the best option. I'm at a loss of what to do!

I am 18 years old and just found out i'm having triplets!!!! How hard is it going to be to find a family to adipt all three of them i don't want them split up. But i also can't keep them i'm just not able!!!

I am 18 years old and just found out i'm having triplets!!!! How hard is it going to be to find a family to adipt all three of them i don't want them split up. But i also can't keep them i'm just not able!!!

i am 18 years old and just found out today that im pergnant. All i can do is cry my baby's daddy left me before i found out im almost a month! its so hard i want to keep it but my family is telling me to termanate it but i cant kill something that has never done anything wrong and deserves to have a chance to live a life. I love my baby already and its not even a thing yet its just cells! i want to let it live a life and be loved the way i would love it! but i dont know what to do! i am so young and i am so scared i want to give me baby to someone who will always love it. who wont flip out when they come to them and say i smoke or i had sex i want them to be filled with joy when he/she says its first words. everyone says im not ready that i cant do this but my hearts telling me i can i can fight to love this child with all i have in me! (and i have a feeling its going to be a boy)

i am 18 years old and just found out today that im pergnant. All i can do is cry my baby's daddy left me before i found out im almost a month! its so hard i want to keep it but my family is telling me to termanate it but i cant kill something that has never done anything wrong and deserves to have a chance to live a life. I love my baby already and its not even a thing yet its just cells! i want to let it live a life and be loved the way i would love it! but i dont know what to do! i am so young and i am so scared i want to give me baby to someone who will always love it. who wont flip out when they come to them and say i smoke or i had sex i want them to be filled with joy when he/she says its first words. everyone says im not ready that i cant do this but my hearts telling me i can i can fight to love this child with all i have in me! (and i have a feeling its going to be a boy)