Comments on: How to Join a Sorority or Fraternity

on 7/11/2007 i was wondering if any of you could answer a few questions for me,im doing a research paper on how to join a sorority,not just for the paper but also for myself for when i sign up for rush in the spring semester of 2008.

on 8/8/2006 Keep in mind that sororities and fraternities are looking for people who will not only fit in, but contribute positively to the organization. Your grades, campus involvement, and yes - your appearance - will factor into this consideration.

Most sororities have a GPA requirement that must be met in order to pledge and to remain a member. Many sororities also require their members to adhere to personal appearance and grooming standards, such as maintaining a healthy weight range, keeping your nails and toes manicured, hair cuts maintained, dressing appropriately, etc. If you do not want to have to be at your best every day, then being in most sororities may not be for you. It's a bit like being a pro cheerleader - you will be critiqued on a regular basis and expected to be at your most attractive while maintaining the best grades possible and attending many social events and being involved in campus. It requires a lot of discipline and the ability to juggle all of your priorities well. It's not the constant party that some might think, but it is fun and you can get a lot out of it.

on 11/22/2005 Going Greek is a big decision. If you don't feel comfortable doing it right at the beginning (when everything is brand new in college), wait and do it the next semester. I waited until I got things under control and was looking for an additional outside group to join. As someone else said, move through the stereotypes, name calling, and the like. Many national offices do not put up with several stereotypical Greek activities. It will take some time and money. You get out of it what you put into it. Greek life can be a familiar face across campus to the members of your bridal party, it's up to you.

on 11/22/2005 Make sure you have somethings ready to ask your host at a rush party - they can be anything from what type of social events do they hold, to philanthropic work, to how much it will cost. Also, if you feel you should worry about being hazed or forced to drink, ask you host what their organization's hazing and/or alcohol policies are like. There are many groups who follow these policies to the letter and will be able to tell you alot about it. In addition, base your decision on where you feel at home. I know it sounds antiquated, but you will regret your decision if you end up somewhere that you can't be yourself - even if it is the most popular house on campus.

on 11/22/2005 Be aware that you will probably acquire your sorority or frat's reputation, or label and make sure you are comfortable with bething labeled "snob," "slut" or any other nickname associated with that particular organization.

on 11/22/2005 While there are some chapters out there who do the stereotypical "Greek things" (hazing, out of control partying, etc), there are others who don't. My chapter does not haze in any way and does not condone underage drinking. Find out the facts yourself.

on 11/22/2005 Be sure that you have investigated the fraternity/sorority that you wish to join. Try to see if you will like your fellow Greeks. You MUST learn about the extent of the tasks you'll be forced to do in order to join. For sure, they will be demeaning.

on 11/22/2005 The Greek system hasn't devised any other means to acquire new members other than a rush party. It's totally artificial, but the best answer so far. My advice? Be yourself, with mother's manners. Enjoy yourself - you might meet a wonderful friend!

on 11/22/2005 Even if you don't think you want to join a sorority or fraternity, go through rush. If you still decide you don't want to join, you will at least have met a lot of new people.