Comments on How to Date a Scorpio

We're really complicated and although it may seem like we've got everything under control, nothing ever goes right (or so it seems to us). Don't try and force us to open up to you. It's only going to push us away. Just be patient and it will happen. Don't overwhelm us with love and affection, but the occasional surprise gift won't hurt. (Note OCCASIONAL.) I find that sometimes, something as simple as snuggling up on a couch with movies is better than taking us out to dinner at a fancy restaurant. It's not the location that makes the date fantastic, it's you. As for gifts, it's best to give something that says you know us really well. For example, if I said to you a while ago that I'd love to go to Jamaica, then a Jamaican dinner or present would really show that you really care. Just remembering little things that we say and bringing them up a while later shows us that you really care and really impresses us because chances are, we won't forget what we've said, either. Although I am a Scorpio, this is my personal opinion. It's best to just try and get to know your lover and going with the flow. If we've picked you, then there's gotta be something special about you that we absolutely adore.

I see people and things for what they are. Try to hide something from me or lie to me and I can see right through you to the truth. I can and will be your best and closest friend for life, but you burn me once and you're history.!

I have a Scorpio moon and it's stronger than an ascendant or sun sign. My tip would be that when dating a Scorpio, try to understand them. Don't ask too many questions. Praise their need for privacy and a little alone time. They're emotional people, but hide it so well that most people think we're all cold stones. What a Scorpio woman appreciates in a man: - mystery - strength - protective - understanding (a big one)

They are too secretive. They expect you to give and give, without giving back. They want to know everything about you without giving up any information. They are emotional vampires and play more than their share of games to emotionally manipulate people.

As a Scorpio woman, I can say this: we are not all the same. I've grown as a person. I am no longer that much of a jealous person, I've learned to control that. I no longer seek to get revenge on people I dislike, I believe one day they will get what they deserve without me contributing. I learned not to put all of my energy into negative and pity stuff. Now it's all about me, me, me! So guys, don't run away. We Scorpios are not evil, we only want what everybody else wants - love, patience, alone time, attention and being able to feel that we are important and needed.

I am a Scorpio woman. If you want to date a Scorpio, do not try to impress her with shallow things or shallow conversation. Do not be predictable. Instead of dinner and a movie, be more imaginative. Do something physical and interesting on your date, like hiking, sailing or dancing. We like candles and flowers, fascinating and deep conversation (mysteries, paranormal, psychology, and history are all good topics). Dimly lit, private places are the best settings to get to know us, but we like to get to know you first. Be honest, be on time, be passionate and sensitive, but most importantly, be yourself. Nothing is worse than a fake or superficial man.

We Scorpios like to know that we are granting our heart to someone who is worth it. Therefore we tend to guard our hearts until that person comes along! If you see a Scorpio woman that you like, just be brave enough to go up to her to talk! I guarantee you she won't be the one to take the fist step! So do you have the guts to face a Scorpio?

What we like is probably what everyone wants, to have someone interested in us. To be very romantic, old fashioned, and have a woman that speaks to our hearts, that is the key. We love deeply and forever. Do not game us, do not try to spare our feelings, do not find a way to try and trick us. We just like honesty in everything. And all those areas that you think fool us, will never work. And we don't wait to see what comes next!

Like every other woman we like to be treated like ladies, we don't care much for the surrounding noise, as long as your eyes and your attention are on us. We don't need to be taken care of, we usually can take care of ourselves. Just be there for us and do not judge us, that's a big no no.

Scorpios are very affectionate, loyal people who like intimate settings and coziness. The club scene is not the ideal place for us. Simplicity and romance is our cup of tea.

I'm one moody Scorpio -- talk about roller coasters! I feed off other people and their emotions, so if my boyfriend is upset, I get upset too. I also like my quiet time and I'm a bit protective of my heart. But once I gain a person's trust, I fully give them my whole being.

Always show respect. We like all of the old fashion dating rituals (doors held open, seat pulled back, flowers just because). We like anything that shows you are being your true self and appreciate us. If you break our trust, be sure to know, you are out the door!

I'm a Scorpio and all we want is to know that we are important to you. Flowers, cards, notes on the mirror - it's very simple!

I'm more true to my ascendant than any other part of my chart, so when Scorpio's admit they are emotional, just be present for us. Don't judge the intense emotions or call us obsessive. If we even admit to you we are falling in love, consider it a privilege because we will never admit that unless there is a good chance it is reciprocated. If you call us obsessive, consider it a betrayal of trust and get ready for the sarcastic anger, especially if we've admitted our vulnerability and you weren't strong or wise enough to handle it. Although games in the bedroom make my night, don't ever play a game with my heart. It takes a magnificent man to handle us.

I'm dating a Scorpio at the moment. Although I love him very much, he confuses me often. Scorpios are a mystery and don't seem to like to give you their full story. People have told me Scorpios are very honest, but not my boyfriend. He likes to lie, but always seems to lie about things I always find out (he always has great excuses). I feel he's scared of commitment and he always needs a lot of space. As a Taurus I like to be with him all the time.

We scorpio's have very strong feeling.We like uncrowded place where there is a peaceful envoirnment.Don't betray a scorpion coz a scorpion are loyal & hate betrayel.

Scorpio women are vindictive, short-tempered and cruel. They also have a tendency to breakup with you without any explanation - mine broke an engagement via e-mail! My advice is to head for the hills.

I'm a Scorpio and the one most important thing to me in a relationship is having space to be who I am, to have time to spend with my friends and family as well. I am very aloof at first, and it takes a long time for someone to earn my trust, but once they do, I would do anything for them. Do not suffocate your Scorpio or they will go running. I myself am a sagitarrius rising therefore I love being out and about in loud crowded places, I feed off it. Scorp's also remember every tiny thing that has ever been done to them, so beware when crossing one!

I’m a Scorpio woman, and contrary to most, I love the club scene and big parties. But of course I also love intimate settings. I think it’s all about balance. I know one thing that is common for all of us is once we fall in love, the one we love becomes number one. We strongly believe in loyalty. I hate playing games! I care too much for other person's feelings. I like to be honest and straight forward. So, if you are a passionate, fun, honest, interesting, sexual person you may be a good match for us. Just be true to yourself, and to us.

Don't give us any reason to be jealous. If we take you seriously, we expect you to be very serious about us. Don't lead us to doubt how you really feel.

Just make sure you are willing to listen and try to understand us Scorpios. It's true we are passionate about most things, so if you're not in a relationship for the right reason, then the Scorpio half is going to get very hurt.

I'm a Scorpio, and dating a Scorpio can be hard. A Scorpio requires so much, Scorpios expect a lot of attention. Don't be alarmed if a Scorpio attracts a lot of people, they are magnetic. Love them, treat with respect, and stay on the same level with them.

To a Scorpio the thought is more important than the cost. A picnic in a romantic spot with our favorite food will impress us more than the most expensive restaurant in town.

I am a Scorpio and I just want to say that we like to be in quiet places - loud places freak us out and make us feel uncomfortable. Also, you have to earn our love; we expect something in return for our kindness.

To date a Scorpio, you need to understand that if we are still taking your phone calls after the first date, this is a good sign and shouldn't be taken lightly. We are very loyal and mysterious and always look like we are up to something. We're not into flings unless there's a payoff so if anyone thinks they can play us, check the date because you are soooo last week!