Comments on: How to Date a Scorpio

on 11/22/2005 I'm dating a Scorpio at the moment. Although I love him very much, he confuses me often. Scorpios are a mystery and don't seem to like to give you their full story. People have told me Scorpios are very honest, but not my boyfriend. He likes to lie, but always seems to lie about things I always find out (he always has great excuses). I feel he's scared of commitment and he always needs a lot of space. As a Taurus I like to be with him all the time.

on 11/22/2005 As a Scorpio woman, I can say this: we are not all the same. I've grown as a person. I am no longer that much of a jealous person, I've learned to control that. I no longer seek to get revenge on people I dislike, I believe one day they will get what they deserve without me contributing. I learned not to put all of my energy into negative and pity stuff. Now it's all about me, me, me! So guys, don't run away. We Scorpios are not evil, we only want what everybody else wants - love, patience, alone time, attention and being able to feel that we are important and needed.

on 11/22/2005 If you are the type of man that wants a caring, sympathetic shoulder during a bad time do not have a Scorpio woman as a partner. If you want a caring partner, find anybody else other than a Scorpio. Scorpios want you to give your heart and soul in the name of love. They want you to follow their rules and play their games. True love requires a deep level of intimacy. It requires a partnership, a unity. Scorpios always look out for themselves with an option of being your worse enemy in the future. Scorpios go for partners that are mysterious, strong and smart. However, a truly strong and smart person knows how to hide their strength, knowledge and wisdom. Many Scorpio people end up with guys that follow a conventional style with a pseudo-power image. At the same time, the really smart and strong people learn how to avoid the mind-games of many Scorpio people.
Scorpios have a destructive nature. Meaning they like to tear things down and destroy things. So expect sarcasm or even an undermining attitude even if they are your loyal partner. This is why many Scorpios request a strong partner. It is a twisted way of saying a partner that will accept their sarcasm, their mood swings and any devilish side that might appear for no apparent reason. The loyalty only exist while Scorpios are in the relationship. A true form of loyalty protects a person (even an ex-partners) image and character.

on 11/22/2005 Female Scorpios are very intelligent, sophisticated and very intense. They have so much pride that they won't let you hurt their pride no matter how much they love you. They are caring and very emotional. Naturally, Scorpios try to hide their true nature as much as possible, but once you gain their trust, they'll trust you until the end (or until you screw up).

Female Scorpios have tempers, they can get pissed very easily. When that whistle blows - be afraid, be very very afraid, run away far and take shelter! Scorpios are very protective of whom they love and care for, so make it a point to get on their good side. Loving a female Scorpio is very simple, they love little romance gestures, treat her like she's the only woman you see, and just simply love her.

Female Scorpios can get jealous very easily, but don't use it against her, she will take revenge any chance she gets. And believe me, it won't be pretty. Female Scorpio love respect, and they will work hard to earn respect. If anyone disrespects them someone will have to suffer.

on 11/22/2005 I'm a Scorpio, and dating a Scorpio can be hard. A Scorpio requires so much, Scorpios expect a lot of attention. Don't be alarmed if a Scorpio attracts a lot of people, they are magnetic. Love them, treat with respect, and stay on the same level with them.

on 11/22/2005 At the first glance will see that hypnotic look those eyes! Mysterious, even a little innocence, we just like to play this game. Innocent, sad, smiling, passionate, angry women. Do not show your macho man thing! That doesn't work, we will laugh a lot about that and (this is really important) don't push us, don't be the leader or bossy. Be yourself relax, and if you and a Scorpio get together, don't push the buttons, let us be. Our head is full of fantasy and we will like to see you to be a part of our games.

on 11/22/2005 We are not casual, we have unfathomable depths of fiery passion. A Scorpio woman will offer you the most intense, most romantic, most sexually satisfying relationship you will ever find.

on 11/22/2005 Don't even think about trying to measure a Scorpio by someone else's yard stick, unless you want to be dropped like a hot potato. Give us room to breathe and don't stand on our wings. If we are free to be ourselves, we will be loyal to the dying end.

on 11/22/2005 My advice comes from my personality. I'm a Scorpio on the cusp of Sagittarius (some say I'm Scorpio and others say I'm Sagittarius) the majority of my traits are definitely Scorpio, so here is my advice.

Scorpios can be very guarded. I will not trust someone until I know for sure that they can live up to that trust. Once someone has my trust, I will be loyal till the end. If betrayed, I can be vengeful. It will take a long time, if ever, for me to trust that person again. I don't like when people try and force me to open up, I suspect an ulterior motive. When dealing with a Scorpio, and what they're feeling, just give them the space and the time to come to you themselves. Don't ever be fake, manipulative, or play games with a Scorpio. They will see right though it.
Unlike the others, I love crowded places, I also love my quiet alone time. I need this in order to keep myself balanced. Listen to a Scorpio. We will know if you're not truly listening to what we're saying, and we will resent it.

Scorpios are intense and passionate in every aspect of their lives. This can make their altering moods a little annoying to others who don't understand the reason behind the variations. Understand that whatever that Scorpio is feeling, it is justified to them. On the outside we may look like we have everything under control, but on the inside it's just a whole lot of crazy emotions. We know what we want and if that's not you, then you have almost no chance of getting us. Even though we hate people who try to manipulate us or play games, Scorpios can be known for their game playing, so if you're not up for a challenge, don't even try.
Don't let our passion and intensity scare you. Although we may be distant at first, once that trust is there, we will be more passionate than you would ever have guessed. Don't let it overwhelm you, just be ready. That said, we still love our independence. Have fun with a Scorpio, it will be one roller coaster ride, but it will be worth it in the end.

on 4/16/2007 I have been very disappointed with my past relationships. I do not respect a man that is weak. I do not like excuses, empty promises, liars, or men that think they can control anything that has to do with my everyday life. I prefer to let things slowly play out, so fast paced guys - take a hike! I do not approach men, even though sometimes I wish that I would have. If you are not mentally stable - go away. I do not want drama, or people that are emotionally vacant. If you do not have your own personality, or a life without me, don't try to take up all of my free time. I love to go out and do things, and then sometimes I would like to be alone with you. Do not be possessive or controlling. I also do not want someone I can walk all over, because I will and I will eventually leave you. I usually resent my ex's. I gave them plenty of chances to work it out. I give 110% and if you can't work it out in time, then you have let me down. I have cheated before, but only after the relationship had already deteriorated. I love being in love. I want someone who is strong, has a good sense of humor, and is excelling in life. I love to be outdoors and go out and do things. I like someone who is optimistic and enjoys life. I can only dream of someone that can fulfill my needs, they seem not to exist where I live. I'm still looking.

on 11/22/2005 I dated a Scorpio women and came away with a bitter taste in my mouth. She was highly insecure, overly emotional, very dramatic, and secretive (she says one thing while she is actually thinking and wanting something else).

on 11/22/2005 I am a Scorpio. We are very emotional creatures. If you are after a Scorpio, be prepared for a lot of jealousy and insecurities. However, we will not be insecure if you don't give us a reason to be. Be honest. We prefer to be hurt with the truth rather than be made to feel a fool. We have a hard time forgiving, and letting go of the past. I like loud places that are full of people, as I have nothing to hide. We pay attention to the little things others do in the relationship that show us they truly care. Respect, affection, and appreciation, are qualities we are looking for in a partner.

on 11/22/2005 One thing I know is I hate to be lied to. We always find out, and when we do - be careful! We Scorpios have a lot of different sides that you will meet at one time or another. Never mess with a Scorpio girl, they always get you back (no matter what). Tread carefully. On the other hand, Scorpios can be the nicest, most caring people in the world. Treat them well and they will treat you like a king.

on 11/22/2005 We hate tardiness. If you're late, bring flowers. Also, being disloyal is the ultimate mess-up. Betray a Scorpio, wait for an earthquake.

on 11/22/2005 Show a Scorpio man your pain and he will do anything for you.