Comments on How to Know When You Love Him

It's only true love if it's a two-way street. Only if the other person honestly loves you also. If not, it's infatuation.

There is a saying that love is blind but it is not really true. Love is not blind but it's just you see more that not everybody can see. It's just you see something inside that person more than his physical looks which is his good personality.

Love is selfless. If you love him and care for him (or her) more than you care about yourself, that is love. If you would do anything so that they don't feel pain, and if their pain and sorrow hurts you too, that is how you know you love them.

One of the best ways to know you truly love him: After the infatuation stage (5-8 months), sit yourself down one day, and take a long look at him. If you think about the events you shared with him that day, and melt with just the thought of the love he puts into you, you have a winner! If you just think that he's hot or he could stand to lose some weight, you could have a problem, to say the least.

Love is seeing him how no one else does. Love is when you know he's not perfect but you see him perfectly. Love is thinking about him day and night. Love is when he means the world to you. Love is when no one else knows how you feel. Love is the best feeling you can feel.

You know that you love him when you allow each other to express feelings without judgment or denial. When you can be yourself. He is with you because when you are with him, he can be himself too. In the end, there is a bond that cannot be broken. He is the best friend that tickles your heart, stirs your dreams and you will want to share his as well. And you know you will always want to snuggle.

Love is patient. Get to know your partner before commitment, and be sure he or she is who you want to be spending your time with. When we rush we tend to destroy what could have been our true love, only for our selfishness. So take it slow.

You know you are in love when you try to describe your feelings to someone else and they are so unfamiliar that you can't!

There are many ways to know you are in love. There are many ways to be in love. I think the two most popular answers (that everyone is looking for) are: Lustfully in love and Soul Mates. You will know when you are lustfully in love when you can walk into a room that your lover has walked through over an hour ago and you can smell that they have been there (not their sprayed on cologne or perfumes). If you have never felt that. You were not lustfully in love, you were just in heat. During this time you feel the most outgoing and sexy (while feeling this way, you forget to live,too). Soul mates type of love is having the total trust and confidence that you can live in a fantasy land here on Earth where no one exist but the two of you. You feel like you can save the world. You can hear better. You can understand better. You feel unreal. You feel your best in everything you do.

Love is wanting happiness and everything that is good for your loved one. Love is not wanting someone, it's wanting what is best for them. I don't care if she is with someone else, as long as she is happy. Knowing that she is happy is all I need. It's about sacrifice. I would make the ultimate sacrifice for my loved one. Not only would I take a bullet for her, I would put a bullet in myself.

It is love when you can't think of anything else when you have the boy on the brain. Love is when anything can happen, you are willing to do anything for the person.

If you can look into his eyes and see the two of you together in the future, then you've got a good chance of being in love with that person for a long time. If, when you look into his eyes, you see nothing, then you're probably not truly in love.

Love is when you can be together in silence and still be very confident and relaxed.

You know if you love him by a certain feeling inside of you that when you are with him the feeling makes you feel happy on the outside more than it feels from the inside. You also feel like you can tell him mostly anything.