Comments on: How to Get Help if Your Child Is Using Drugs

on 3/27/2006 When I had a drug problem myself, my parents threw random threats at me, i.e phone police, get kicked out, call my friends parents and tell them there son/daughter is using drugs, but these never worked. The best thing to do is to show your son/daughter that they can have fun without the drugs, and get them concentrating on something else. This is what helped me.

on 11/22/2005 Allow them to take up a hobby (swimming, badminton, painting, basketball). Let them focus on their favorite hobby, don't interfere in their hobby, give them a little space. They focus on their hobby and would not think of other things. Give them examples of the the consequences of taking drugs, tell them what would happen if they take. Most importantly don't give them stress. Too much stress gives them the option of taking drugs to get away from their life.

on 11/22/2005 Talking to your kid is the first step... ALWAYS! Don't go behind their back to try and solve the problem for them. Most kids know they have a problem before you do and don't need you to tell them. Have a non-accusitory conversation with them about the dangers of drugs and then ask them if they have any questions or comments. Don't be mad if they don't admit to anything at first... They know they need help they just may not have known they could get it from you... Remember to always be supportive of them never tell them they are disappointed because you will lose their faith in you and then you'll both be disappointed.

on 11/22/2005 Strictness isn't going to make problems go away in every situation. My father had me arrested in my teens for possession, and all I did was rebel against him. My mother showed me she cared through patience and understanding and I'm a better person for it.

on 11/22/2005 You must provide consequences for their actions. If they bring drugs into your home and you find them, have the kid arrested. I did. It really makes them think! Also a good drug treatment intervention program can be helpful. This is really Tough Love.