I think it is best if you do tell your wife if you cheated on her. She will find out eventually. Then you will be up a creek without a paddle. You may be anyways. Now my ? is. Suppose your wife left you for a year and then you decided to cheat on her would she therfore be somewhat at fault for being gone from you for a yr and do you still tell her if it is eating at your soul.
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