These Steps sound impossibly hard.

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Great dating and pick-up tips for men and women. Who knew dating was so complicated...

Load a rot, I say. Girls can smell a fakie ten miles away. Once you're in the relationship with her, she will know pretty quickly that your conversational skills were a put on. Don't risk it!

wow this is some good advice given here. it's great. but if u want to take things to the next level, you have to include something called Kino. The word comes from Kinasthetic which meants touch or study of the body. Apply this with any girl, and you're guaranteed to get lucky. To learn more you should visit Pro Seduction Training. Great site http://www.proseductiontraining.com

There is no how to or how not to, when it comes to girls. its not about being intersted, beacuse chances are, if shes pretty. Tons of guys already are. To be different in that case you would want to play not so interested. its a game of chess, you gotta wing it. If she plays x peice you play y. or you could just try being yourself. no use forcing something that isnt true. But if your looking to be a player, and just get the girl for a night. Just learn to play the peices in any situation.

Yes, its definetely not an easy area to get good at. I do think its well worth the effort though. I'm not there yet myself, but I have definetely seen benefits to having a greater choice of places and ways to meet people

Yoga clubs and all of the other social circles are definitely the best way to become more talkative and outgoing.But for people with extreme social phobia the best way to start approaching women on the street is by asking women for directions or asking for the time.Then you should try talking with them.Asking for directions is like a warm up before talking with women.

In response to Tsuru's story: ****I met my current wife by approaching her in a book store. I saw her out front on the sidewalk right before the store opened - she really turned my head but I chickened out and she walked in the store before I could move. Fortunately I got a second chance because I saw her again in the store and this time I didn't choke. As was suggested in this article, I just went up to her and made small talk about the subject of the books in the section where we were both looking for a similar book. Got her number, etc and we've been together over 15 years. I met my previous wife the same way only in reverse - she approached me!****Very interesting story tsuru! Very inspiring. This is my goal with the article. Congrats on your success!

Responding to: "This is murder for shy people like me. " ---> Hey man. Read the text again. I was socially anxious to the point of phobia yet passed most of these phases. This is FOR shy people, not for "anything but shy people".If you weren't, I'd just go directly to the last step. That's why you have progressive levels and steps. Unlike popular belief, shyness is not a biological trait, its just a set of habits, beliefs and attitudes.And being gregarious and outgoing is just a skill like any other. You can learn it the same way you can learn to play a guitar.Its just that a lot of us "naturally" shy people were busy acquiring other skills in the formative years. We got good at art, or programming or reading, when everyone was getting the skill of being an extrovert.That's why if you have been practicing some skill for many years, it starts feeling as if it were inborn. Its not real...