I have been with my boyfriend for 8 ears. Early on, we were both in bands and basically just lived together. He spent a lot of time by himself and played video games. Later (~ 3 yrs ago), I tried to break up with him. I met someone else, but this new guy was a complete loser. I left the new guy, but my boyfriend still wanted to be with me. He begged me to stay with him. I was ready to be alone for a while, but I felt sorry for him. He cried and drank a lot (he always drinks a lot). He bought me roses every day. So, I stayed with him. I had to move several times because of my job, but he always followed me. I have four dogs, and he loves them. Now, he has lost his job and basically living off of me. I am no longer physically attracted to him. He is a nice guy, but he has no ambition to better his life. I hate being the only source of income. He smells really bad in the mornings too (we no longer sleep in the smae room). I know I am rambling, but I am afraid he will kill himself if I kick him out. He has no job and very little money. I am ready to end it, but he is not. What should I do?
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