I too just recently went through a breakup. I was blown out of the water. This man who seemed to be the sweetest, most thoughtful, considerate, affectionate guy dumped me... I was told... "it's been 4 months and I feel like I should love you by now... and I don't feel "it" yet... so I think we should end this" - I was in shock! This guy from day one treated me like gold and tried so hard. Why would he put on this act if he wasn't feeling it? How can guys do that? Act like they feel one way about someone, but feel something totally opposite? I could never force myself to behave that way if I didn't feel anything for the other person.... bizzare eh?
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almostdead - I read that and smiled - because it's nice to know that there are other people just like me out there!! I read your comment and felt like it could have been me writing that. (Minus the suicidal part) - It's just so ridiculous... However, I'm not going to let this last breakup get me down! I'm starting to realize that it's all in the positive attitude - try to stay "up" and you will be "up." Let yourself get down, and you will spiral down. In the end, I always say to myself that everything happens for a reason. If it wasn't meant to be - maybe it's good that it's finally over - so we'll both have a chance to find what we're looking for. I always also keep in mind that it's human nature to never be happy with what you have. All those "happy" couples that you mentioned that you notice aren't always happy. Even if you're rich, and with a wonderful person - there's sti
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