Etiquette

The rules of work-place etiquette have evolved dramatically in the past 25 years. How then, do you survive when gallantry will get you nowhere, except maybe into hot water?

As the old sage says, "Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery." And if there's one thing children do, it is to imitate the behavior of adults. If you want well-mannered kids, I...

Ever since Vince Vaughn stated "You're Money Baby" in Swingers, it's been a phrase that's been synonymous with being a cool dude. What really is it to be "Money" though? Too...

Do you get really animated when something happens to you that makes you upset. Do you use a lot of sweat words that would probably humiliate someone or yourself. Learn to control your anger issues...

Folding the American Flag for Presenting is a very sacred honor that goes back to the beginning of United States history. Whether folding the American Flag for Rendering Honors, Presenting Colors...

Whether you're a guy in a crowded disco or a fine lady cruising a martini lounge, a few unwritten rules of etiquette apply to catching a bartender's eye and getting your drink order bumped to the...

Are you right-handed, left-handed, or ambidextrous? If you are right-handed, you are in a group that comprises about 80% of the population. A much smaller group, the left-handers, greatly...

Ever struggle with what to say or how to help when someone has lost a loved one?

Here's a simple 5 step formula to help you write a request letter quickly. This template can be fine tuned to work for most any request situation.

It's the holidays, and it's time to think not only of ourselves; but of others in need. My thoughts go to our soldiers who protect our country and allow us to sleep soundly at night. Often,...

Writing thank-you notes can seem like a daunting process. Most of us put it off because we're never quite sure how to say "thanks" in just the right way. But with a few basic sentences...

"Beg the question" is a phrase that gets a lot of abuse these days. It is virtually never used correctly. People who should know better, professional writers and broadcasters, are the...

Dealing with a person who has a "know it all" personality is a challenge indeed. I hope I have learned a little about this over the years.

For thousands of years flags and banners have served as important symbols, helping organizations, armies, states and nations to unite. While we often take it for granted, the United States flag...

I know, I know...it's hard to be polite. It's really freaking hard to say crazy things like "please" and "thank you" and "have a nice day", because gosh darn it, YOU...

Becoming assertive means you possess the ability to express yourself openly and honestly while respecting another person. Assertiveness is a skill which is developed over time. If you take time...

Are you tired of forgetting someone's name? Do you always have a hard time remembering a person's name even after just meeting them? Here is a super quick and easy way to cement a person's name...

Words are amazing. But we add humor to our conversations by adding elements to real words. Many popular words were initially made up words, but were then used so much that they're now part of...

The world is becoming increasingly more connected via the internet. People can make and break their cyber-lives through their reputation. Here is how you gain and keep a good internet reputation.

Ever had that time when you received a voice mail and erased it after about 5 sec. nonsense? Well the next time you leave a message, leave a constructive one. A message that makes sense and is to...

Learn how to pick the perfect present for your boyfriend, whether you`d been dating 1 day or 10 years in the easy to follow, step-by-step guide!

Death touches all of us. Whether it's the loss of a family member, friend or pet, everyone has experienced the need to send a sympathy card. While there are many cards to purchase, adding your own...

Flying the stars and stripes is an honor and privilege enjoyed by many Americans. Whether from an apartment window or from a pole in your front lawn, having our flag on display is cause for one...

Write your letter to fulfill your purpose, not to "say everything."

Nobody likes a liar, but everyone tells lies. Whether it's a white lie about how delicious your mother's newest culinary concotion tasted, or what was more important than the mandatory 5:30 a.m....

It's happened to Pamela Anderson/Tommy Lee, Ray J/Kim Kardashian, Fred Durst, Tonya Harding and even Paris Hilton. Many of these stars did go on with their lives and careers with no real negative...

Ever wonder if you are a good friend or want to be one with someone else? How about and Excellent friend? I have a few ideas that might get you there.

Remembering names can sometimes be a difficult task, especially when you meet more than your fair share of faces, hopefully this little list of tricks and tips I have learned over the past several...

Do you or someone you know have a problem saying "NO" to people? I personally know someone close to me that won't say "NO" to anyone's request, and in turn, ends up feeling a...

I have used Facebook almost daily since joining, and have found it fun, useful, and fulfilling. It has put me closer in touch with family and friends than any other time I can remember. However,...

Don't let anyone say you have bad manners again. Someone took the trouble and expense to give you something, so just scribble your thanks and be done with it.

Insult fights have unspoken rules & a rhythm. Master a few basic tricks, and victory shall be yours.

This summer's health care town hall meetings brought the issue of civility in our country to the forefront. Later actions of Serena Williams, Congressman Joe Wilson, and Kanye West, have people...

It is an unfortunate truth that many adults today, both male and female, find it extremely difficult to accept a compliment. Perhaps it is a result of our "bigger, better, stronger,...

Today I was roaming the mean streets of Harlem on a kite and realized I've traveled the dirtiest, grittiest, places, and have done some of the sketchiest things with little to no...

Opinions. Everybody has one. There are times in life when you seek out opinions from others for assistance in problem solving. Then there are those times when someone gives you unsolicited...

"How to Win Friends & Influence People" by Dale Carnegie is one of the first best-selling self-help books. It was published in 1936 and has sold more than 15 million copies. It is used as a...

So you made a verbal blunder, and now you're stuck in an awkward moment. It doesn't have to be that way. Learn how to gracefully recover any situation, and you'll never be awkward again!

Wedding invitations aren't to be taken lightly. They reflect the occasion's theme, tone and formality. Much thought goes into choosing wedding invitations matching the couple's personality and the...

We all do it. Some of us live for it, some of us loath it but for better or worse we all eat out sometimes. As a long time member of the food service industry I have seen some wonderful and...

I have reused gifts many times over the years. I would not however do this without thinking it through completely. I know just how much time and energy some people put into the gifts they make or...

Expressing thanks when you've been given a gift is one of the greatest things we can do to make the giver feel good. For many people, giving a gift can be exciting or nerve-wracking (what if the...

Having trouble putting a face to the name, or vice versa? Maybe you're one of those people who have known someone for a long time, but because you don't converse with them very much or say their...

Ever wonder why when you instant message that hottie she instantly adds you to her extensive Ignore List? Well, if you pull these stunts you're guaranteed an honorary spot at the very top. Read on...

Yet another how to pointing out the patently obvious? Not on my account. Although giving a seat to the elderly may seem as easy as Step 1, Get up, Step 2, Give seat- it's not that simple on the...

These are some general etiquette guidelines for Southern India.

Online dating has become the new fad these days. But making a good profile is hard. Girls seem to do just fine, but guys have some trouble I noticed. So listen up online hotties, here are some...

When you tell someone to leave you alone, and they don't, that can be considered stalking. When someone is making you feel uncomfortable, or following you around when you don't want them to, that...

A hand written thank you note has become all too rare these days as technology seems to have taken over. Sending a note at all is half the battle! Many people struggle with what to say, but it...

Everyone wants something -- a better apartment, a raise, a spouse! But often we don't know how to get the things we want and deserve and need. Yet there are some simple tools anyone can use to...