Goodnight Kiss Hints
Everything on a first date leads up to a decision that will make or break that date: whether or not to share a goodnight kiss. Knowing when to go for that first goodnight kiss can be tricky. Kissing too soon can scare your date off. Waiting too long can cause the other person to lose interest. Executing a successful first goodnight kiss hinges on preparation and observation.
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Watch Body Language
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One quick way to tell if your date wants to share a goodnight kiss is through their body language. If she has made a point of touching your arm or rarely takes her eyes off of you throughout the date, take it as a definite sign her interest in you is high. Watch to see if your date plays with her hair while talking to you. This is a subconscious flirt and is typically a signal inviting you she is ready to take a step forward with you.
Consider Your Conversations
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Conversations can reveal many things about your date. At the top of the list is their willingness to end the night with a kiss. You can judge their interest through something as simple as laughter. If your date laughs or giggles frequently through the date, it is a definite signal she is having a fun time with you. If your date also makes a point of turning her body toward you when the two of you are talking, it is a subtle cue that you are capturing her complete attention and her interest in you is growing.
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Look for Cues
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When the evening is wrapping up, watching to discover your date's movement patterns can reveal exactly what is on their mind. If you walk your date to her door and she finds ways to linger at the doorstep -- like fumbling through her purse for her keys -- it is a good sign she is not eager to make a quick exit. If she turns her back toward you and seems in a rush to get in the door, it is best to not make your move. Also, be aware if family members or friends are in the immediate area. Their presence may cause your date to shy away from sharing a goodnight kiss.
Seize the Moment
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Patience is the rule of thumb for a goodnight kiss. Wait for the right moment to make your move. Once it comes along, do not hesitate. Once there is a pause in the conversation, that is your cue to go for a kiss. Lean forward and see if she brings her face closer to yours. If her lips part and she touches her hand to your neck after the two of you hug, that is a nonverbal cue that your date wants something more. If in doubt, it never hurts to ask if you can kiss her. The effort might be worth it!
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