10 Questions to Ask the One You Love
When you're in love, there's nothing to stop you from being totally engulfed with the person. From spending all your quality time together to discussing the future, you two are talking about your relationship on a daily basis. No matter if you've been dating for a few months or longer, ask your honey a few questions to get to know if you two are on the same page for continuing as a dynamic duo.
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Do You Love Me?
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Knowing if the feeling is mutual is an essential tool in moving toward a successful relationship. You may have known you've been in love with your mate after your first date, but your partner may take longer to develop true feelings of love. Discuss your levels of love to be sure you're both on the same page.
Are You a Workaholic?
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Being in love with someone who is overworked may become an issue as you two move into the future. Find out if he's more in love with you or his job, so you know where you stand. At the beginning, it might not seem like a big deal; however, in the long run, you may grow tired of playing second to his laptop.
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Do You Like Kids?
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It's important to know whether the person has children or wants them. Consider the potential for a long-lasting relationship with the woman you love, which may easily transition into something permanent, such as marriage.
Do You Like Dogs?
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If you know old Fido isn't going anywhere, but he'd rather see the dog go to the neighbor child, you might want to ask him how he feels about having your furry friend around. As some people treat their pets as their children, you'd hate to learn that your five cats and hamster aren't going to make the cut if he's not that into them.
Do You Have a Checked Past?
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Not every question is a comfortable one. But for the one you love, it might be nice to know if she has an ex-boyfriend with an open restraining order or if she's done something that might come back to bite both of you in the future. If you love her, you should be able to trust each other. Ask her without judgment so you at least can analyze if it's something you can handle.
Are You Physically Satisfied By Me?
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Face it, you need to know if you're pleasing him physically. From the way you kiss to foreplay to your sexual acts, you should know if you're doing what it takes to satisfy him so that you can either keep doing what you're doing or change your technique.
Where Do You Want to Be In 5 or 10 Years?
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Ask to see if you two are running neck and neck on your future plans. The last thing you need to find out is that he's signed a contract to be in Istanbul for the next five years. You also may want to both chat about the pros and cons about living in a suburban neighborhood in California or a high-rise overlooking the New York City skyline.
How Important Are Your Parents' Opinions?
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Discuss your views on getting acceptance from your families as your relationship flourishes. If he's a mama's boy that listens to every bit of advice or disdain his mother throws at him, you need to know how to handle that. Maybe your family loves him to death and would disown you if you two ever broke up. Know your limits on incorporating family into your lifestyles and decisions as a couple.
What Personality Traits May I Not Know Of?
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Things have been so good that you haven't even thought to ask her if she's jealous or selfish. Besides, these are things you don't normally ask on the first date; but as you two have gotten closer, knowing what things irk her might be useful. She may be able to tell you she is known to be a bit needy or clingy or if she's always been told she's so independent she could walk the earth solo.
What Are Your Views?
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From religion to politics to how you raise your children, ask him questions about his own personal views. It might be nice to know that he plans on raising his children as liberals or practicing a religion completely opposite of your beliefs.
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