Things to Do to Spice Up Your Relationship
Over time, relationships may lose their luster and excitement. Spice up your relationship with change and adjustment. Predictability keeps a relationship boring. If your partner can predict what and how you will do something, consider being more spontaneous --- at the least. (See Reference 4, bottom of page 3, top of page 4) Surprise your partner with something new and exciting that will have her do a double-take. Keep her entertained.
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Kiss With Passion and Desire
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Kiss your partner like you mean it every time. Kissing is an art. (Reference 1, last paragraph) Art should be felt and interpreted with passion. Your kiss should tell your partner how you feel. Studies, such as the one that Susan M. Hughes of Albright College conducted, indicated 66 percent of women would breakup with their partners if the first kiss was not engaging. (See Reference 1, paragraphs 1 and 2) A passion-filled kiss needs no complementary words to follow. (See Reference 1, bullets 1 and 2) Your desire can be felt in your lips and the way you connect --- your technique. However, saliva has chemical, hormonal components which drive desire and sexuality. Women are more susceptible to these hormones than men. However, do not drench her with saliva. A bad kisser can be a worse turn-off than the flu.
Reminiscent Dinner
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Remember how you were when you first attracted your partner. Take your relationship back to your first dinner-date together. Recreate the same mood. Act, speak and woo her the same way you did during that first date. Over time, many couples forget and stop doing the little things that attracted their partners in the first place.Attraction is a main element in a successful relationship. If your first date was a bust, use this dinner as a chance to make amends. Show her your level of romanticism and interest. Look at her from across the table; let her see the passion in your eyes. She will know you are sincere.
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Schedule Intimate Sessions
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Your life can become busier than you plan. Jobs, children and other commitments can demand a lot from you and not leave much time for intimacy with your partner. Plan specific sessions for alone time and intimacy. Keep to the schedule as you would your jobs. Let it build anticipation throughout week. Schedule these sessions for at least once a week.
Pamper Your Partner
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You can pamper your partner in myriad ways. Everyone deserves some pampering. Pampering could be what turns neglect into desire. Serve your partner breakfast in bed, or pick her up and carry her to a designated eating area. Give her a massage as she eats. Let her know you care. Clean the house for her. These actions could prompt some passionate feelings from your partner.
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