Gifts for a Big Sister of Twin Babies

It's important to help older siblings feel involved with new babies.

When a new baby comes along, it is important to make sure that older sisters don't feel left out. This is especially true when twins come along and Mom and Dad don't have the same amount of quality time to spend with their elder daughter. On these occasions, it is important to include the older sister in the daily routine and remind her that she is loved and valued. An appropriate gift will allow big sis to feel involved in the celebrations while serving as a memento of her new role.

Identity

After the birth, the focus is often on buying clothes for the new arrival. Big sister T-shirts make a thoughtful gift to remind the older sister that she is loved and has an important role, and when coupled with little brother/sister T-shirts will allow her to connect with her siblings more easily.

Inclusion

New babies often mean lots of photographs. A cheap digital camera will allow big sister to be the official photographer of the twins, and she will feel extra important being able to send her handiwork to grandmas, grandpas, aunts and uncles.

Involvement

When visitors bring presents for the new babies, let the big sister unwrap the gifts and have a say in putting the babies outfits together or decorating their room. This will make her feel really grown up and like a big help to Mom and Dad.

Interest

Buy big sister a charm bracelet with two appropriate charms, one for each of her new siblings. This marks the birth as an exciting and important step forward in her life. Mom and Dad can explain that they are starting a new tradition and that they will buy her a charm for each important step in her life, starting now.

Individuality

While presents are lovely, it is important to remember that no gift will replace quality time with Mom and Dad. Remember to schedule some time out with big sister each week, and encourage other family members to spend quality time with her away from her new siblings to remind her of her importance as an individual.

References

• Baby Center; Big Sister of Twins; October 2010
• Twins List; Older Siblings of Multiples; November 2003