Objectives of Divorce Counseling
Divorce is one of the hardest things a family can go through. For this reason, divorce counselors provide support and assistance to families who are going through divorce. Divorce counselors are often the first professionals newly separated couples go to see, before even lawyers and financial advisers. The objectives of divorce counseling conform to its function as a first line professional service for couples considering divorce.
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Prevention
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Prevention is considered the most desirable outcome for couples whose differences are not irreconcilable. Many couples who seek divorce counseling are not 100% decided about getting a divorce. In these situations, the divorce counselor will discuss options for keeping the marriage intact. Sometimes a period of separation will lead both parties to the conclusion that they are better off as a couple after all. For this reason, marriage counselors may encourage couples to experience single life before filing for divorce.
Stress Reduction
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Divorce is a stressful experience for all people involved, including children and extended family, in addition to the couple themselves. Divorce counselors may recommend that the parties take time off from work or pursue recreational activities to minimize their stress level. They may also refer parties to psychiatrists or therapists for additional help.
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Emotional Support
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Divorce counselors often serve as the proverbial "shoulder to cry on" for people going through a divorce. In a profession that deals with people undergoing profound emotional trauma, practitioners are expected to offer emotional support, and to encourage an open discussion of feelings. The more technical side of divorce is handled by lawyers.
Legal Preparation
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Preparation for tough legal situations is one of the primary of objectives of divorce counseling. While divorce counselors are not lawyers, they do have enough knowledge of legal matters to make legal referrals. Divorce counselors should be able to gauge whether issues like assets and custody will become contentious, and if necessary, recommend lawyers who specialize in tough divorces.
Economic Preparation
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Economic preparation is another primary objective of divorce counseling. Divorce counselors may provide couples with basic financial advice, and write referrals to financial advisers. Financial costs associated with divorce include legal bills, asset seizure and court fees. Divorce counselors provide advice specifically related to these types of financial issues.
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