What Are the Conversation Topics for a Date?

When you head out on a date, keep the conversation flowing by asking your date questions about his interests.

When you go out on a date, you want to have a fun evening filled with good conversation. You don't want to spend your time staring awkwardly at your date during long pauses in the conversation, struggling to come up with something to discuss. As you head out for your date, dress your best and be ready to keep the conversation flowing with topics that will entertain you both.

Hobbies

Find out what your date likes to do for fun and ask about her hobbies. By asking what she likes, you'll show interest in her and give her the chance to lead the conversation. You may discover that you have many shared interests. Once she has told you about her favorite hobbies, you can share your activities with her. Keep the conversation light and be honest about the activities you enjoy.

TV Shows and Movies

You may be surprised to discover that you and your date love many of the same TV shows or activities.

Pop culture is always a fun choice for conversation. Ask your date to name the last great movie that he watched. Find out if he enjoys comedies, action flicks or drama shows. Discuss your favorite TV shows and actors. Ask friendly questions to find out why he likes one show so much. If you're both fans of the same series, you can talk about episodes that you particularly enjoyed.

Traveling

If your date is well-traveled, ask her to tell you about her favorite vacation spots. You can share stories from your own travels. Funny stories or unusual tales can entertain your date. If she hasn't had the opportunity to travel yet, ask her about places in the world she'd like to see. Spend a little time dreaming as you both discuss the fabulous cities you'd like to visit someday.

Families and Friends

Get to know your date by finding out about her family and friends. You can talk about holiday traditions that he shared with his family, or how he met his best friend. Offer information about your own family and friends so that the two of you can get to know one another equally. On initial dates, try to focus on happier stories about family members and friends; save more somber stories for a time when you are more involved.

References

• Ask Men; Top 10: Safe First Date Topics; Oliver Jameson
• "Cosmopolitan"; How to Totally Rock a First Date; Molly Triffin