What Kind of Flowers Are Traditional at a Funeral?
Whether you're grieving for the loss of a loved one, or are a family member or friend of someone who is, there are many things to learn about, plan and manage in the first few days following a death. Flowers are an important part of most funeral ceremonies, as they allow mourners, friends and loved ones to express sympathy and compassion to the survivors of the deceased. The giving of flowers is also a traditional way of honoring and paying respect to the dead. If you know what kinds of flowers are appropriate for a funeral service, you can spend less time deciding what to send and more time supporting loved ones at this difficult time.
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Casket Sprays
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A casket spray is a floral blanket that rests atop the closed portion of a casket, sometimes gently cascading down the sides. Traditionally, the immediate family members--widow or widower, surviving children or parents--pick and send a casket spray directly to the funeral home. The season will ultimately determine what kinds of flowers are used, based on availability. However, the florists at Teleflora recommend pure white flowers such as orchids, lilies and carnations with deep green foliage for a traditional, reverent look. Teleflora also suggests adding one soft color, such as yellow, peach or pink to the spray, to add a touch of warmth and beauty to the occasion.
Standing Sprays
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These floral arrangements are several feet high and rest on the back of a thin metal easel. Traditionally, family members and groups such as co-workers or club members send standing funeral sprays to the grieving family. Sometimes, standing sprays are shaped into hearts or words, and some sprays are decorated with banners such as "Beloved Sister." The most popular flowers for standing sprays include carnations, lilies, roses and daisies.
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Wreaths
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Traditionally, family and friends send funeral wreaths. They are circular arrangements made from green and brown sprigs, baby's breath and a variety of different flowers. Florists generally offer a wide selection of wreaths for sympathy and remembrance, and customers can usually choose according to color scheme, flower selection or traditional flower meaning. Like the standing sprays, these arrangements are usually stood on an easel or hung near the casket.
Basket and Vase Arrangements
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Baskets and vase arrangements are the traditional way for extended family members, friends and coworkers to show their sympathy and compassion. These arrangements are the typical, most popular type of floral delivery, though arrangements for sympathy and funerals traditionally display a cross, dove or other spiritual image, and consist of white or soft-colored lilies, orchids, carnations and roses. According to the florists at 800Florals, colorful arrangements aren't "too cheery" to send as a sympathy gift--rather, bright and vibrant colors represent warmth and the joy the deceased brought to the lives of mourners. Arrangements can be sent to either the funeral home or residence of the immediate family.
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