Funeral Card Ideas
Choosing the right funeral card can be difficult. Many types of sympathy cards fill the card aisles and can be very specific. Decide what kind of message you want to convey and select a card with that in mind. You may want to send a card with a religious message, or one with a comforting bit of poetry.
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Funeral Etiquette
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It is customary for friends and family of a deceased person to observe a period of grieving after their loved one dies. However, there is no particular time frame in modern American culture, so you can send a funeral card immediately or even a few months later.
Cover
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Many sympathy or funeral cards feature a cover with a peaceful scene or flowers. Think about the card recipient when choosing the cover for your card. If they love the outdoors, or the lost loved one did, then a card with an illustration of an outdoor scene would be appropriate. Look for a card that reflects the favorite colors, flowers or location of the deceased.
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Interior
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Choose a card with a message or one that is blank with plenty of room for you to write a personal remembrance. Most sympathy cards feature language about prayer, scripture or poetry. If you will write your own message, keep a few things in mind. Don't use language like "It's for the best," "She's better off" or any words that minimize the grief of the recipient. Focus on your support and acknowledge the pain and the loss the card recipient must be feeling.
Personalize
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Personalize your card and distinguish it from ordinary cards by adding a personal remembrance of the deceased. Recount the positive impact the deceased had on your life, or relate a story that illustrates the character of the lost loved one. Keep your comments positive and encouraging. These types of stories allow the card recipient to realize that her loved one's life was important and meaningful, and can help bring a small measure of comfort during days of grieving.
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