List of Wedding Toasts
A wedding is the happiest of occasions for friends and family of the newlyweds. It is truly a time to celebrate. The wedding toast is a chance for those close to the couple to share their sentiments, and a nice break in the reception.
It is normal for guests to want a chance to congratulate the happy couple. Unfortunately, there is rarely enough time for every guest to present a formal wedding toast. A little preparation will ensure the right people are standing up with a microphone at your wedding.
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Who Toasts
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Traditionally, the best man offers the first toast at the wedding. It is also customary for the bride's family and groom's family to toast the happy couple, guests and wedding party. These days, it is common for couples to decide who gives toasts, and the list could include wedding party members, close friends and extended to step family members. Newlyweds often toast their friends and family, possibly as a way to wrap up the toasting and invite their guests to the dance floor.
What To Say
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A toast given by the parents of the groom or bride often welcomes their newly acquired relatives to the family, and includes a message to their son or daughter. Family friends toasting will share short, thoughtful stories about the couple and messages of hope for their future. Toasts from the best man or maid of honor will convey the support of the entire bridal party, and possibly anecdotes about the couple's romance. While giving a wedding toast, it is customary to toast to the couple's future, repeat a traditional toast reflecting the couple's heritage or choose a few last words for the crowd to repeat as they sip champagne.
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Planning Tips
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The bride and groom have final say on the toast list; however, their parents may make suggestions, especially if they are hosting the event. It is best to keep the list short and sweet. A list of a dozen people making toasts may monopolize the reception. Prepare the people giving toasts ahead of time. As soon as the list is finalized, notify your friends and relatives so they can prepare what to say. A week before the wedding, confirm with your chosen toast-givers to make sure they do not need any help or a replacement at the reception.
Final Word
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When they offer the final wedding toast, the couple can set the mood for the rest of the evening. The groom may offer the final toast alone, but most couples decide to thank their guests for the evening together, as one of their first acts as husband and wife. The couple also has the final word on who gives wedding toasts and what they say, and may request copies of toasts ahead of time. Do not be surprised if a bride or groom asks for a copy of your wedding toast, they are simply making sure their wedding day goes off without a hitch.
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