Signs of a Toddler Being Ready for Potty Training

Avoid frustration by making sure your toddler is ready to begin potty training.

Some toddlers begin using the potty quickly and easily while others struggle. Before you begin potty training, make sure your toddler has the necessary skills to be successful. Look for physical, behavioral and cognitive indicators that your child is ready to begin the transition out of diapers.

Physical Indicators

Dress your toddler in clothing that will be easy for her to get off and on.

Your toddler may be ready for potty training if he urinates a significant amount at one time and has regular bowel movements with some predictability. Being dry for at least two hours demonstrates that his bladder muscles are well-developed. It is helpful if he can get his pants up and down independently and get off and on the potty without assistance.

Behavioral Indicators

Make sitting on the potty a fun experience.

Behavioral signs include a dislike for being wet or dirty and showing an interest when others are using the bathroom. Demonstrating interest in wearing underwear, a willingness to sit on the potty and being able to sit still for a few minutes are also positive signs. Your toddler needs the ability to indicate when she is having a bowel movement, which may involve words, noises or looks. Attempt potty training when your toddler is cooperative and not experiencing a defiant phase.

Cognitive Indicators

Teach your toddler the vocabulary she needs to talk about using the potty.

Your toddler may be ready for potty training if he is able to follow simple instructions. He also requires the ability to understand explanations, such as how the potty works. Your toddler should be able to communicate when he needs to use the bathroom or when he has had an accident.

Warnings

Begin potty training during a stable time in your child's life. Events such as the addition of a new sibling, changing day cares, moving to a new house or losing a pet create stress for toddlers and can negatively affect potty training attempts.

Delay potty training if you are focusing on other changes in your child's life such as the transition from the crib to a bed or eliminating the soother or bottles.

Keep in mind that teaching your child to use the potty at night may take additional time. Some children take months or years after daytime training before developing the ability to stay dry at night.

If your child is not potty-trained by three years of age, consult your doctor to rule out medical issues.

References

• BabyCenter: Potty Training Readiness Checklist
• Healthy Children: How to Tell When Your Child is Ready
• KidsHealth: Toilet Teaching Your Child

Resources

• Childavenue.com: Potty Chart