Wedding Day Prayers for Dinner
The reception dinner is an important event as it marks the newlywed couple's first meal together. Traditionally, the honor of saying grace on the wedding day is given to the religious elder officiating at the ceremonies (i.e., the priest). However, the wedding meal prayer can be recited by the bride, groom or other honored guest.
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Considerations
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When leading a wedding day prayer, the tone of the blessing should always be one of gratitude and conscious thanksgiving. In addition to the union of the couple, particular remarks can be made to honor the family of the bride or bridegroom, particularly family members who are currently experiencing hardship. And don't forget to give thanks for the food and fellowship you share at this auspicious meal.
Delivery
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Before the meal begins, give consideration to the delivery of the prayer. Assume that large reception halls will require the use of amplification equipment. Ask the disc-jockey or band to permit you to use their microphone when necessary. Guests may join hands while standing along the walls enabling the entire party to join in a single prayer. Alternately assign each table a prayer leader who will repeat the main prayer for the small audience.
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Example 1
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Blessed Lord, our God, who created joy and gladness, love and brotherhood, may you be the caretaker and overseer of this marriage. May this union mark and honor the everlasting love of (insert bride's and groom's names). We give our thanks for this wedding day feast and for the love in this couple's hearts. Amen.
Example 2
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Gracious God, our hearts are full of joy on this day as we mark the union of (insert bridegroom's name) and (insert bride's name). They have come before you and your children to pledge their love for one another. May you grant them wisdom and peace in their union and all matters of life. Grant them the gifts of kindness and patience to temper their anger and quell fiery passions. As we bear witness to their union, we ask that you bless these festivities and accept humble thanks for this feast. Amen.
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