10 Ways on How to Make Friends
Whether you are young or old, it can seem tough to find people with whom to embark upon a meaningful friendship. No matter how outgoing you are, sometimes it just seems like there is a disconnect between you and those around you. If you are open to it, though, you can find friends who will help you feel cared for and fulfilled.
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Activities
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Sign yourself up for a class, create a club or join a fantasy sports league. Regardless of what activity you choose, you will be meeting new people and potential friends.
Be Proactive
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Be more talkative wherever you are, whether you are at work, with a group of people or even at the store. Take the initiative to ask others if they want to get together and do something.
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Common Interests
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If you own a pet, go to church, play a sport or engage in any other activity, odds are there are other people there that would be a good match. Talk to the people around you at these events to cultivate friendships.
Social Networking
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Social networking Web sites give you a chance to set up plans with old classmates or coworkers. You can talk online, build a friendship and even schedule events in the future.
Upbeat Attitude
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Keep an upbeat attitude, smile and be kind to everyone around you. When people think of you, they will associate you with positivity and be receptive to a growing friendship.
Mutual Friends
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Think about the mutual acquaintances you have with other friends or your significant other. You may not know them very well, but ask them to hang out and you may spark up a real friendship.
Plans After Work
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Ask some of your coworkers what they are doing after work and schedule some time together. While some of them may not be friend material, this is a way to get to know the people you see all week.
Pay Attention
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Listen to what people have to say and offer your own constructive opinions. You do not always have to blindly agree with them, but you should be honest and let them know you care. Refrain from interrupting people.
The Golden Rule
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Simply treat people you meet the way you want to be treated. Be kind and respect them at all times, even if you disagree.
Be Reliable
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If you make plans with anyone, make sure to show up on time and do just what you say you will do. If someone needs a favor, help out. These are qualities people look for in friends.
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