Child Development Stages at Age Two

Keep these developmental milestones in mind as you grow and play with your child.

Two-year-olds exert independence as they become more aware of the world around them. As they learn more about themselves, they might become frustrated easily if they cannot express themselves the way they want. This stage is often filled with everything from temper tantrums and arguments to laughter and excitement as their emotions change rapidly. Each day, however, you will notice your child demonstrating new abilities. Try not to let the defiance overshadow the accomplishments, and enjoy this time in your child's life.

Physical

At two years of age, your child has almost all of her teeth, weighs between 22 and 38 pounds. and stands between 32 and 48 inches tall. Your child should walk well and be able to go up and down the stairs independently. She can run, kick a ball, build a tower of at least six objects and sit down on a chair by herself. She is learning to toilet train and can use utensils well. When reading a book, your child should be able to turn each page. She might also attempt to get herself dressed.

Intellectual

A two-year-old should begin to say and repeat words and phrases. He might try to put simple sentences together, typically consisting of two or three words. He should understand simple instructions and identify pictures of objects he is familiar with, such as toys, body parts or names of family members. While he might have a short attention span, he likes to look at books and might know what small dangers to avoid, such as a hot oven or an electrical outlet. However, err on the side of caution and take the time to explain other hazards to him.

Social

At two years of age, your child will likely play by herself. She can sit in a group of children but will play beside them instead of with them. She might be very possessive of her toys and while she might share at first, she will probably want them back almost immediately. She can refer to herself using her name. At this time, monitor your own actions carefully as she will probably imitate you. She should show an interest in brushing her teeth and hair, and might demand to get dressed herself. Her attention span is short, so she might only sit and play for a few minutes at a time. She will need time in between activities to prepare herself for the next one.

Emotional

A two-year-old can be extremely self-centered. At this stage, he is just starting to identify himself, his personality and his belongings. While he will typically enjoy affection, he might often appear to have a negative demeanor and become frustrated easily, especially if he can't communicate effectively. He can't understand the ability he has to choose between actions or objects and might throw a temper tantrum as a way to express himself. While your two-year-old is becoming more independent, he might also be defiant and resistant to change. Your toddler might respond more to humor and distraction than logic, reason and discipline.

References

• National Network for Child Care: Ages & Stages: Two-Year Olds
• Wonder Time: Child Stages: 2 Years