Signs That a Toddler Is Ready for Toilet Training

Children are ready for potty training at different ages.

While most toddlers are ready to be toilet trained between the ages of 18 and 24 months, this is a milestone that is reached only when the toddler is developmentally prepared. Some children are not ready for toilet training by the time they are 2, so watch for important signs and clues before you begin.

Communication

Your toddler must be able to use the words or expressions to let you know when he has to go or when he has already soiled his diaper. Teach your toddler one word for urination and one word for bowel movement. If he is too young to speak, try a hand motion or a signal instead. He should also be able to express other concerns, such as hunger or thirst, and should be able to follow simple instructions.

Awareness of Body

Not only should your toddler recognize the fact that she has to go, she must also realize that she will be uncomfortable if she does not use the toilet. She might also squirm, squat, cross her legs, grunt or groan, or play with her diaper or genital area to let you know she has to go.

Interest and Imitation

Your toddler might show interest in toilet-training books, dolls or educational programs. He might try to imitate you or other family members and will want to watch while you relieve yourself. Some toddlers get excited about flushing and simply like toilet training for the reward of waving to the urine or stool as it flushes away. Your toddler might express an interest in sitting on a potty chair and feel proud when he wears his "big kid" pants.

Physical Signs

In order to toilet train successfully, your toddler must be able to stay dry for at least two consecutive hours during the day. If your child wakes up dry from naps and indicates a need to use the toilet almost immediately after waking, it is a sign that she is ready. She also must have predictable bowel movements, be able to pull down her pants, sit on the potty and pull them back up again. If she can't quite complete these tasks by herself, help her and show her what to do. Stay consistent every time, and you will soon begin to see results.

References

• Parenting: Potty Training
• American Academy of Pediatrics: It's Potty Time
• AskDrSears.com: Toilet Training