Proper Wearing of Men's Dress Shirts & Neckties

Wearing a shirt and tie properly involves style considerations and technique.

Properly wearing a shirt and tie involves far more than yanking any random combination out of the closet and slapping it on. There is -- or should be -- ample consideration of color and pattern matching. In addition, the tie and shirt must go together stylistically. Over time, these skills become automatic, allowing any man to successfully match a shirt and tie for any occasion. Does this Spark an idea?

Colors

The key to a successful shirt and tie combination is coordinating -- not matching -- the shirt and tie. Shirt and tie combinations are chosen based on whether the wearer wishes to dress powerfully or remain more conservative in appearance. For example, a white shirt and red "power" tie are useful for when attention is desired, such as at speaking engagements. Conversely, a subtle approach might include a blue pinstripe shirt and black pindot tie. Avoid shockingly colored shirt and tie combinations, regardless of venue.

Patterns

Choice of pattern is as important as color considerations, offering plenty of room for error. When mixing patterns -- which is perfectly acceptable -- always attempt to maximize the difference. For example, a shirt and tie each featuring stripes may be worn, but the tie's stripes should be notably wider and on the diagonal from the shirt's. Wear complex patterns such as paisley with suits and shirts lacking any pattern at all.

Textures

Matching fabrics between shirts and ties is normally not a good practice. The contrast in texture between the tie and shirt should be notable. Differences in texture are found in the graining of the silk or fabric of the tie versus the smoothness of the shirt. There is no preference regarding which article should be smoother or rougher, as long as there is a distinguishable difference.

Fit and Proportion

Ties, regardless of knot style, should never be left revealing the top shirt button and should reach but not overlap the belt. The width of the tie should match the width of the suit jacket's lapel, which in turn is proportional to the shirt's collar. This is why men wearing fatter tie knots look best with spread shirt collars, as opposed to ones pointing straight down. Body width is also a key factor in choosing ties, with slimmer options working better on slimmer men. Most men are best served with ties around 3 to 3 1/4 inches in width, maintaining a look that avoids trends and always looks appropriate. Slim or skinny suits ask for a skinny tie, with the width determined by lapel width. Shirts should be as fitted to the torso as possible, with cuff length extending to just beyond the wrist bone.

References

• Art of Manliness: How to Match a Tie with a Dress Shirt and Suit
• Esquire: Shirt and Tie Combinations
• Street Etiquette: Accessories Are a Necessity: The Necktie