Things to Remember About an Official Wedding
Weddings are exciting but complicated events. If you’re planning a wedding and don’t have a wedding planner, then you may feel overwhelmed. It’s easy to get caught up in finding the dress, picking the music and auditioning bands. While you’re taking care of everything, though, don’t forget to think about some of the wedding day details.
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Catering
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Reduce your expenses by inquiring about the cost of child plates. Your caterer will probably supply smaller portions for a smaller price for the children attending your wedding, including a more child-friendly menu like chicken fingers instead of the elegant cuisine you’ve ordered for your adult guests.
Pictures
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Before you entrust the important task of capturing your wedding memories to a stranger, ask for and check references from past customers. Don’t assume that all the pictures in his studio are his, as many photographers purchase stock photos. Ask specifically to see his individual work.
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Rehearsal Dinner
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Remember to be gracious and smile at your rehearsal dinner, no matter what happens. This is not the time to deal with past relationship issues with anyone present. If your parents paid for the dinner, then they should have the privilege of making the speeches; otherwise, it’s up to you.
Receiving Lines
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Traditionally, receiving lines form a part of formal weddings and are a way to welcome guests to the reception. The bride, groom, both mothers and optional members of the wedding party stand in line to greet people as they come in. You can also chose to hold the receiving line at the location you got married in if you prefer. If you chose not to hold a receiving line, you will need to go around and greet each table individually, which can take up much of the evening.
Thank You Cards
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The proper time frame for sending thank you cards for your wedding gifts is within three months. If you receive gifts prior to the wedding, then send them before you leave for your honeymoon. Sending thank you notes is time-consuming, but important to express your gratitude and avoid potentially offending your guests and friends, especially old-fashioned ones.
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References
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