Key Points to a Good First Impression
Making a good first impression seems to come more naturally to some people than others. If this trait doesn't come naturally, don't despair. Getting off on the right foot is a skill that can be learned and practiced, and it’s well worth doing so. A good first impression can open many doors for you in life, whether it’s in dating, at a job interview or just expanding your social circle.
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Dress and Grooming
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Your good first impression begins even before you meet someone for the first time. Ensure you are dressed appropriately for the occasion you are going to attend. If you are not sure of the dress code at a particular venue or company, talk to someone who’s already been there or bounce some ideas off a friend. Make sure your clothes are clean, pressed and in good repair. Shower, brush your teeth, cut your nails and comb your hair. Take a look in the mirror quickly before you walk in to make sure everything is in place.
Greeting
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Greet someone properly the first time you meet her. Shake hands confidently with a firm, but not crushing grip. Smile warmly and make and hold eye contact. Say your name clearly, and repeat hers with a phrase such as, “it’s nice to meet you, Dawn.” This will help you to remember her name.
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Body Language
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Your body language gives another person many unspoken cues and can tell a lot about you. Be aware of your body language and use it to your advantage to create a good impression. Walk tall and with good posture, rolling your shoulders back. Try to keep fidgeting to a minimum, even if you are nervous. The way you sit can convey interest and attention to the person you are meeting. Don’t slouch or fold your arms. Sit up and slightly forward without crowding.
Small Talk
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This can be one of the most intimidating aspects of meeting someone for the first time – what will you say? Find out a few things about the person beforehand if you can, so that you can find points of common interest to talk about. Ask some questions to get the conversational ball rolling and to convey interest in the person you are meeting. If all else fails, have a couple of common topics – perhaps entertainment or current affairs – in mind to fall back on, but avoid anything that might be controversial or on which you might strongly disagree.
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