Making Romantic Places at Home

You can create a romantic hideaway anywhere in your home.

Everyone needs a little romance at home. A romantic retreat can serve as a place to escape daily stresses and recharge your batteries. Carving out a romantic sanctuary away from kids, computers and television will help busy couples reconnect. If you equate romantic places with pink walls, hearts, flowers and frills, think again. Romantic design takes many forms and encompasses key elements that evoke a sense of intimacy and comfort.

Location

Any room is fair game for a touch of romance. The bedroom, the epitome of privacy and relaxation, seems like the logical choice for romance. However, don’t stop with the boudoir. Look beyond the obvious when making romantic places at home. Transform the patio or backyard into a romantic area to enjoy the beauty of nature with the one you love. Carve out a romantic corner in your living room, attic, basement or even the kitchen to share soothing music and conversation.

Paint Colors

Romance represents everything from sultry to serene. To establish a romantic color palette, decide which mood you want to convey. Paint color choices should be a joint decision. If you both lean toward the dramatic, consider rich colors, such as burnt sienna, goldenrod or eggplant, to serve as the backdrop for your romantic space. If you prefer a Zen vibe, cool blues and greens will set the tone for a relaxing time together. Shy romantics may want to stick with neutral walls and incorporate punches of color with fabrics and accessories.

Lighting

The harshness of overhead lighting has no place in your romantic enclave. Replace ordinary wall switches with dimmers to transform the glare into a flattering and seductive glow. Lamps outfitted with three-way bulbs can provide subtle ambient light. Save on the electric bill by using romantic candles to light the space. Turn up the heat with the sexy glow of a roaring fire. A fireplace or outdoor fire pit encourages cuddling on a chilly evening.

Textures

Luxurious textiles heighten the romance of a room and satisfy your sense of touch. Treat yourselves to high-thread-count bedding, silk drapes, a quilted velvet throw, plush area rugs and chenille upholstery. Opt for organic woven window shades rather than impersonal plastic or metal blinds. Include natural wood furniture to add depth and warmth. Use restraint when integrating textural elements into your romantic hideaway. Too many disparate textures or an overabundance of one may prove overwhelming.

Other Considerations

Furniture pieces should be comfortable and inviting. A cozy conversation or reading area requires no more than two comfortable chairs, fluffy pillows, an oversized ottoman and small table. Choose a furniture style that suits your taste and coordinates with other areas of your home. This can mean anything from 18th century French antiques to modern or traditional pieces. Most furniture styles will work when paired with the right accessories.

Simplify life by paring down household clutter, including kids' toys, mail, newspapers, magazines and bric-a-brac. A beautiful space featuring carefully edited accessories not only clears the mind; it helps you focus on matters of the heart. Crystal wine stems look beautiful, and set the stage for a romantic evening. A delicate orchid plant, classic books, and items collected from travels give your retreat an exotic feel.

References

• The Columbus Dispatch: How to Create a Romantic Corner for Cuddling
• Pratt and Lambert: Your Personal Color Profile
• Ourhouse.biz: Romantic Rooms
• TheJournalTimes.com: How to Make a RomanticGetaway in Your Bedroom
• BobVila.com: How to Make Your Home More Romantic

Resources

• DrLauraBerman.com: Create a Romantic Mood at Home
• Inspired Everyday Living: Create a Romantic and Restful Bedroom
• House Beautiful: Romantic Decorating Ideas
• The Inspired Room: Outdoor Rooms