Dress Advice for Black Tie Evening Wedding

Women should not wear white gowns unless the bride indicates this is acceptable.

Receiving an invitation to a black-tie wedding means that the bride and groom want their guests to dress formally. Some invitations provide instructions, such as wearing a specific color, while others merely indicate that the dress code is black tie. Either way, dressing for a black-tie wedding is fun, because it allows guests to indulge in creating a glamorous look for the evening.

Dress

Wear a cocktail dress or evening gown in a solid color. Black-tie weddings call for a fancy dress. Prints can be hard for some women to pull off, but a solid color that flatters the skin tone is something that looks good on every woman. Incorporate the bride's color scheme or opt for a black dress, but do not wear white. Traditionally, only the bride wears this color. Select a classic shape that flatters your body type; this will ensure that you are able to wear the dress for other black-tie events in years to come.

Jewlery

Wear jewelry. A classic, solid dress never goes out of style, but can look bland. Avoid looking underdressed; wear a noteworthy piece of jewelry, whether it is a big chunky ring, dangling earrings, a beautiful necklace or a sparkling bracelet. Costume jewelry can be worn, but fine jewelry and family heirlooms work best for a black-tie wedding.

Hair and Makeup

Have your hair and makeup professionally done. It is easy to focus so much on what to wear that hair and makeup gets lost in the planning. Makeup counters at the mall often employ artists who can create a glamorous evening look in exchange for the customer making a small purchase. Many salons offer blow-out, updo and styling services. Discuss what you are wearing with these professionals so they can offer the best ideas for completing your look.

Tuxedo

Men should wear a black tuxedo. Men have it easy when it comes to dressing for a black-tie wedding, because there is only one option. The drawback is cost. Investing in a tuxedo is worth it if you plan on attending several black-tie events. But if you just need it for one event, renting or borrowing is a better option.

References

• The Knot: What to Wear? Black Tie

Resources

• Martha Stewart Weddings: Wedding Etiquette Adviser - Attire