How Divorce Affects the Definition of the Family

Divorce often alters how a family works.

In any standard family structure with two parents and children, a divorce can cause disruption to the family. While the definition of family varies between different people, divorce is still likely to alter the landscape of any family. Not only does the marriage at the center of the family dissolve, other factors are also changed.

Structure

The most critical change that occurs to a family's definition after a divorce is the core structure. Both parents are split from one another, so the family is somewhat broken. To those staying in the family home, it may seem as if a member of the family disappeared. Children aren't able to see both parents at the same time at home. If the parents are unable to communicate and get along with each other, it can impact special events such as school functions, birthdays and holidays.

Multiple Families

One factor that affects how children of divorce view their family's definition is the division involved with the process. Both parents may begin dating again or even remarry and potentially bring more children into the fold. Meeting this many new family members alters a family, as it essentially adds members and divides the family into two factions. Rather than having two parents, some children may wind up feeling as if their family contains four parents once a divorce is completed and both parents meet someone new.

Environment

When a divorce is complete, at least one of the parties must leave the family home and move elsewhere. In some cases, both parties may wind up moving once the division of assets is complete. Many families consider their living environment as part of their definition of the family. Divorce can lead to new homes, new cities of residence and new schools for children involved. Some children may also find themselves being raised primarily by a parent who didn't perform the same role in the family prior to the divorce.

Comforts

Divorce can also affect the comfort level a family is used to experiencing financially. Part of a family's definition may be their home, possessions and lifestyle. All of these things can change radically after a divorce once lawyers are paid and assets are divided. Children and parents may not be able to enjoy the same meals, clothing or other necessities and luxuries they are accustomed to having.

References

• ParentGuideNews; A Change in Family Structure; Diane M. Berry
• Australian Institute of Family Studies; Divorce, change and children: Effects of changing family structure and income on children; Kate Funder and Simon KInsella; December 1991
• Clinical Psycology Associates of North Central Florida; The Effects of Divorce on Children; Lesley Foulkes-Jamison; January 2001
• DivorceRate.org: Divorce Rate