How to Know the Rules of Dating for Men

Women will never give away all of their secrets, but here are a few to keep you on track.

Difficulty: Moderately challenging

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Fresh-cut Flowers
• Boxes Of Chocolates
• Breath Mints
• Dinner Reservations
• Movie Tickets
• Bike Helmets
• Mountain Bikes

1. Dress nicely. The average woman changes her clothes four times before she leaves the house. Don't embarrass your date by showing up mismatched.

2. Be careful with the compliments. "You look nice," gives a woman no information. "I love your shoes," wins extra points.

3. Call if you say you will. If you don't, you're a liar and a jerk - expect to be treated like one.

4. Don't talk about your ex, her ex, your mother, or your medications.

5. Be you. You don't have to impress your date with tales of big money, kicking someone's butt, or fast cars. In fact, she's likely to stifle a yawn as you bluster.

6. Tell your date what you like about her. Be sincere and don't focus on the physical.

7. Be considerate ' for example, call if you'll be late. If you don't show up, don't expect another chance.

Tips & Warnings

• Don't drink too much on a date. Of course, you're nervous, but you're also sloppy and say stupid things when you do that.
• Don't look at other women when you're on a date.

[jksadkjh123]

on 3/14/2009 I have done all of the things you women say you want, many, many times. I show up on time, dress nice, I'm all clean and not overly scented, I am a gentleman, I pay for appetizers/lunch/dinner/beverages every time without hesitation, keep the conversation positive and friendly, keep my attention on her, keep the humour clean and not weird or excessive, listen to her, once again: I listen to her, and I am polite to everyone around us. We always meet in fairly nice casual places, but not super fancy places. Yet despite all of this, I have nothing but a thousand first dates, and very, very few second dates. I am Alone. Women demand perfection, especially in the Seattle area. They look for every little flaw possible and then run away when they find one. Next thing you know, they complain about being alone because men are so awful. I say "Baloney" (bologna) to all the advice on here,

[dragonbn76]

on 11/18/2007 Do not use a lot of lotion.. it will show you are for sell to everyone on the street...

[boltonsgirl]

on 7/8/2007 Try to be sensitive. If she shows up and is a little stressed cos of work or something, chances are she'll be wanting you to comfort her and tell her it's OK. Even if it is a date.

on 9/25/2006 If you do use aftershave or cologne, use very little. The average woman has a much more sensitive sense of smell than the average man. So the amount of aftershave that smells OK to you, may be overwhelming to us.

I think soap is the most attractive scent for a man. And of course, clean teeth and fresh breath. Cleanliness is very important to all women, especially when evaluating a man for future physical contact. This matters to all types of women -- whether she is looking for a future husband or just a temporary fling.

If you have a car, don't leave litter from fast food under the seat, or anywhere in the car. As soon as she gets in the car, her nose will tell her that it's there, and it will make you seem less attractive.

on 9/18/2006 If you have just met a woman (say in a coffee shop or bar) and you ask her out, be prepared for her to want to meet in a public place. She is just being careful because you may be an ax murderer for all she knows. If you don't know anyone in common she needs to be careful.

So if she won't tell you where she lives, let you pick her up in your car, or wants to pick the place you meet let her, don't take it personally. She is just a smart woman, and it doesn't mean she has baggage from jerky guys.

Then be yourself, if she likes you and you are a nice person you'll get past the concerns fast. Let her meet your friends - they can be your PR team.