How to Get a Girlfriend

If you're done playing the field and looking to settle down with one special girl, then you're ready to get a girlfriend. You may meet the right girl in the least likely of places - like school or work - or you may have to seek her out in new places - perhaps by joining a new club or trying out new activities. Following the steps below may help you get a girlfriend.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Cologne
• Flowers
• Pencils Or Pens
• Breath Fresheners
• Pads Of Paper
• Greeting Cards

1. Know what type of girl you're looking for. Make a list of traits that appeal to you, such as intelligence, looks, ambition, sense of humor, or respect for other people's feelings.

2. Resolve old hurts and disappointments. Make sure you're ready for a new relationship by setting aside any grievances about old girlfriends.

3. Attract the type of girl you're looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying undesirable traits. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally.

4. Learn how to make a girl feel good about herself by taking an interest in her life and her aspirations.

5. Consider any unattached girls at your school or work. Do any of them match the qualities that you want in a girlfriend?

6. Get involved in activities that you enjoy to give yourself the chance to meet new girls. Expand your horizons and your circle of friends.

7. If you have your eye on a certain girl, let mutual friends know about your interest in her. Ask someone you trust to discreetly tell her about your interest.

8. If you don't have the nerve to directly approach a girl who has caught your eye, consider being her secret admirer for a while. Send her sweet, anonymous messages or notes (with a few subtle clues about your identity) to let her know about your interest in her.

Tips & Warnings

• Love can surface in unexpected places and at unexpected times. Keep your eyes open for the right girl for you.
• Don't settle for anybody just so you can say you have a girlfriend. Be selective to find the right girl for you.

[sandoval15]

on 1/10/2010 im 15, found this girl i REALLY like this girl because shes beautiful and has a great personality with "desirable" traits. she just broke up with her boyfriend but says she wont go out with me because of other drama but claims that it will happen soon. what do i do?

[pirica98]

on 12/18/2009 be real. Just be yourself. And approuch the girl. That's all. :D You don't have to be a Jerk.

[indeedy]

on 11/19/2009 hi everyone, im 15, in high school and i like this girl a lot,great personality,love her, she thinks im a geek cause i love computers, im very shy, she is very special to me, she has all of the traits that i like, can anyone help me?

[creofortuna]

on 11/3/2009 With all due respect, I think you should really consider taking Step 8 out of the article. That's borderline creepy.

[Troyster]

on 8/12/2009 I'm selective within reason. I don't want drug abusers, or generally crazy women. I have no bad habits, hold a job, have no police record and women still don't seem to like me. Last girl I met, I gave her my Facebook name, she added me and then from that point on, ignored me. Even after messaging.:-S