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How to Leave a Party Graciously

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Arriving at the party is the easy part. When you are ready to leave, exercise tact and always thank the host or hostess before you depart.

From Quick Guide: All About Parties
Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • Etiquette Books
  • Breath Mints
  1. Step 1

    Wait until the host is not in conversation or caught in the middle of cooking or serving duties.

  2. Step 2

    Express your gratitude for the invitation, and compliment the host on one particular aspect of the party.

  3. Step 3

    Make a tentative reference to the next time you will see each other. For example, saying 'We should get together for drinks soon' takes the emphasis off your departure.

  4. Step 4

    Acknowledge everyone in the room, if possible. If the party is too large to permit this, express a parting gesture to those guests with whom you spent time talking.

  5. Step 5

    Make your parting words short and sweet in an attempt to let everyone else get back to the festivities.

Tips & Warnings
  • Avoid long and effusive apologies. Others will look upon your departure negatively if you insist on apologizing for it.
  • If the party invitation included an ending time, don't stay too long after the time indicated.

Comments  

jenstein83 said

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on 5/19/2009 Great tips! It's sometimes really ackward leaving a party or gathering especially if you have to leave early or are one of the first to leave.

Quickstar said

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on 12/11/2008 good stuff!5*

FUCKSAKE said

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on 8/3/2007 Recently i was in company and when trying to leave they deliberately tried to prevent me from leaving or at least stall me. I tried to be as polite as i could, however, when i was nearly gone they would start a new conversation that required more time, yet they knew i was trying to leave. Why did this happen?

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Anonymous said

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on 11/22/2005 If you bring a bottle of wine (or anything else) for the host and guests to enjoy, for God's sake, please don't ask for the bottle when you leave. Oh, that's tacky!

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Anonymous said

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on 11/22/2005 I like to give my family a 15 minute warning that we are about to leave, so that they can say their good-byes to their friends and the host too.

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