Things You'll Need:
- Telephone Book
- Telephones
- Internet Access
- Computers
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Step 1
If you receive a handwritten note from your secret admirer, analyze the handwriting to see if the penmanship is familiar to you. Compare the handwriting to other notes or signatures from people you know.
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Step 2
If you receive flowers or other gifts from your secret admirer, call or visit the shop or supplier of the gift to inquire about the sender. Ask sales clerks to trace the sales transaction and provide you with the sender's name on the basis of the payment method, such as a check or credit card. Inquire about the physical description of the sender if the transaction was a cash sale.
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Step 3
If a package mysteriously appears on your doorstep, ask neighbors if they noticed who delivered the package. Inquire about the physical description of the person who delivered the item.
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Step 4
If you receive an anonymous message from a secret admirer e-mail service, check the database of the e-mail service to locate a familiar name.
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Step 5
Consider individuals who have been flirting with you or paying more attention to you than normal as possible candidates for being your secret admirer.
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Step 6
Enlist the help of your friends. Ask if they've noticed anyone displaying special interest in you.
Comments
martgal said
on 4/29/2007 Baby, are you trying to stay single forever?
misterrious said
on 11/7/2006 20 years later...I received a secret admirerer gift in grade 6 and never figured out who it was. It drove me nuts for 20 years as I'm an extremely curious person. Finally after 20 years I connected with some of my classmates through the classmates.com website. One of them told me that he was the one who gave me the gift. Finally!!
Anonymous said
on 8/20/2006 If you would like to find out who it is, then what you have to do is show the note to a couple of guys you suspect, saying something like, "I don't believe I actually got a secret admirer note! Do you know who it is?" or "Hey, ______, do you happen to know who sent me this awesome love note? I wanted to tell them thank you and that I love them too."
Anonymous said
on 3/13/2006 My step mom is a teacher, and my secret admirer goes to that school. After a school dance my step mom told me who desperately wanted to dance with me. Not a lot of girls like me, so I talked to the girl and said it was true. I didn't even get a note!
Anonymous said
on 12/19/2005 Sometimes the best thing to do is to let it go. You don't know what you may start when you find out who your secret admirer is. And if you know for sure who it is, and you're not attracted physically or mentally to this person, just ignore what they send you, and eventually their crush for you will end.