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How to Attract a Woman

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What makes a man attractive to a woman? Follow these tips to make yourself more appealing.

Difficulty: Moderate
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  1. Step 1

    Take pride in your appearance. Realize you only have one chance to make a good first impression.

  2. Step 2

    Appeal to all her senses through your sensuous voice, fragrance, clothing and appearance.

  3. Step 3

    Give her a reason to think about you. Wear a masculine fragrance that haunts her memory, tasteful clothes that she yearns to touch, a smile that she can't get out of her mind.

  4. Step 4

    Flirt with her by sending silent signals of your interest through subtle body language.

  5. Step 5

    Treat her like she's the center of your world. Focus your full attention on her and block out distractions.

  6. Step 6

    Listen intently to what she has to say, and respond with respect for her opinions.

  7. Step 7

    Ask about her interests, her work and her hobbies. Pay attention to the details.

  8. Step 8

    Be honest and sincere. Keep your promises. Call if you say you're going to call. Show up at the time you say you're going to arrive. Don't make idle promises that you have no intention of keeping.

  9. Step 9

    Let her know you're different from other men. Emphasize your originality through your personality, intelligence and behavior. Don't pretend you're anyone other than yourself.

  10. Step 10

    Refrain from boasting, particularly about your past triumphs with other women.

  11. Step 11

    Leave a little something to the imagination. Don't bare all or tell all immediately. An air of mystery can be provocative and appealing to a woman.

Tips & Warnings
  • Your appearance and body language may catch her attention, but it takes personality and charm to sustain a woman's interest.

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clancey said

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jatam said

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on 2/5/2009 This is just crazy, of course this is everything a woman would be attracted to but really what man is really all of this, I'm sure there are many out there but those men wouldn't be reading this article. In step 9 you tell them to be themselves ummm excuse me but this article is telling them how to act that's not being yourself! This is just crazy!!!!!

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korsican said

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on 12/4/2008 This advice was posted in e How by Alek Novy: None of this will work to get you a girlfriend unless you have mastered basic approaching and social skills. This means, you are the kind of person who can approach any person, any where and have 90% of them smiling and laughing... which is a skill made up of the skills: approaching, public speaking, humor, working a room, confidence and charisma.

Each one of these skills is a learn-able skill in much the same way that you can learn how to play the guitar or speak a foreign language. In much the same way there are books, courses, organizations and groups that can teach you each of these separate skills. The get a girlfriend skill is simply a larger skill made up of these smaller ones

Contrary to what charlatans out there might want to sell you... you cannot make a woman want to be your girlfriend. As a man, you can only identify the

korsican said

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on 12/4/2008 OK advice 1 to 4 are ok rest see previous comment

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