How Do I Rekindle a Flame With My Husband?

Spend special time alone with your husband.

After being together for years, it can be difficult to break out of the same routine with your husband. However, it's important to any marriage to keep the romance alive so you stay interested and excited about your relationship. To rekindle a dying flame with your husband, it takes time and effort from both of you. If you initiate new ideas into your relationship, it's likely he will also catch on to spice up your relationship.

Instructions

1. Make one night a week date night. Send the kids to your parents' house or get a babysitter so the two of you can enjoy an evening out. Catch the latest movie or a dinner at a nice restaurant. Make a rule that there are no cell phones or other electronics allowed during date night so the two of you can spend time together alone.

2. Take time to be spontaneous. Instead of making plans all the time, go away for a weekend to a bed and breakfast on the spur of the moment, or spend the day in a nearby city walking through a museum.

3. Be romantic. Leave your husband love notes in his briefcase or send him a sexy text message. Make a CD of songs you listened to at the beginning of your relationship. Take the time to point out things you love about him and how attractive you think he is.

References

• Love Message: Rekindling the Flames of Love
• Married Romance; Tips to Rekindle the Romantic Flames; Tami McRaney