How to Tell Him He Is a Good Father

Complimenting the father of your child is a direct way of showing appreciation.

Being a parent is stressful and overwhelming at times. Working with a partner or spouse during the stages of parenting takes dedication and commitment to the partnership. Telling the father of your child he is a good dad will help to keep him motivated and secure knowing he is doing an admirable job. Use various approaches to help contribute to boosting his confidence in his parenting abilities --- from simple compliments to writing him a personal note of appreciation.

Instructions

1. Think about the reasons why you believe he is a good father and gather your thoughts. Ask yourself what makes him a good father and how his actions are affecting your children in a positive way.

2. Compliment him while he is playing or talking with your children in a way that you admire. Let him know by saying, "You're such a great father" or "The kids are lucky to have a dad like you" to help boost his parenting confidence.

3. Talk with him in private and tell him how you feel about the way he parents your children and how it makes you proud to be his partner. Give him positive feedback when he asks for your advice with the children by reassuring him that he is a great father.

4. Write him a personal note and place it in your bathroom or in his suitcase or wallet. In the note, let him know how wonderful of a dad he is and that you appreciate everything he does for the family as a kind reminder of your love for him.

References

• Sulekha.com; She; Compliment Your Spouse
• Top54u; Home Family; Complimenting Your Spouse
• A Good Husband: When a Husband Gets Praise & Compliments
• Aish.com: Learning How to Talk to Your Spouse

Resources

• All Pro Dad: 10 Specific Compliments to Give Your Children